Within and Inside

At The End Of All Things

2011-07-01T02:30:00.001-04:00

All journeys must come to an end, and, as it happens, this is the end of my blog. I am moving on to a new chapter in the book I call life (both literally and figuratively) and I will be unable to continue writing for the Oakland Press.

I started writing this blog roughly two years ago with the simple intention of opening up a line of communication. I wanted to share, with those who wanted to hear, my thoughts and perceptions on a few matters. Some articles were deeper or more profound than others; but, like all things, there will always be fluctuation in both depth and quality. I thank all of those who took the time to read my writing, especially those of you who responded with open minds. Most of the material came from a deep place within me, sometimes inspired by the day's events or occurrences, others by random thoughts on particular subjects rolling through my mind; and, of course, there were the times where I had five minutes left in the night before there was a deadline for posting so I rushed one in (those too were just as fun). For those who were offended, put off or simply found my work "pathetic" I really don't know why you bothered reading. Clearly there was something you got out of the blog or something you got off on; whether it was a feed to your addiction to drama or some other self serving unconscious factor. But, either way, I'm glad I was there for you too.

It's amazing to look back and see the ripples you've left in your wake. While not always seen as the best, my intentions were certainly to share what I feel and know to be truth and honesty; hoping to open people up or even confirm something they have felt within. While not all tides will clash together, I for one am glad to have had the impact I did, big or small.

Thank you Oakland Press and thank you Readers for your support!

Good Bye

Peace Out

Ciao

Au Revoir

Sayonara

And…

再见！（zai jian）

From “I Want” to “I Will”

2011-06-18T20:24:00.001-04:00

Stagnation affects us all at one point or another; there are many causes for this murky feeling. The world around you may insist that stagnation is just fine because it is both safe and comfortable, but deep within you feel an urge or desire to free yourself from the shackles of laziness. Strangely, however, it may feel as if cannot change that notion of "I want" to "I will". Thankfully, it is indeed possible to make this shift and quite simple. Often it only takes a step forward in the direction of action; other times you may have to find motivation to obtain that kick-start. One of the first things to notice is your mental dialogue. Are you constantly reminding yourself of the things you want or are you working towards the things you want? Are the majority of things you want indulgences or are they of higher value and service towards a better life? I ask the later because craving after a new TV, automobile, cell phone, and the like are likely to only create more of the same feeling.

Changing our mode of being to a state of "I will" is truly empowering. You may not be able to fulfill every desire that comes to mind, but you will become far more independent and self reliant. And while there are plenty of people to drag you down, call you narcissistic or claim that you are selfish, fear not, they are only barking at objects foreign to their thought process. As a great professor once said to me "People on Earth will always to drag the man flying into space back onto their level; they simply don't understand anything else".

Born in a Brothel

2011-06-12T15:44:00.001-04:00

It's a difficult task to stay neutral in the conversation of religion. There's simply too much to talk about with lots of fuel to feed the fire. This topic can be compared to an electronics shop with many beautiful models on display. To the left are the Mac's, to the right are the PC's and somewhere in the back are all of the old models which are looked upon as old garbage with laughable functionality. However, in just a few short years all that is on display now will be seen as outdated and the people will wonder just how they were able to live under such "barbaric" standards.

One would think that in this day and age the general human populace would have the insight to see and understand this process; yet, laughably, most humans are just as stuck in their beliefs now as they were four thousand years ago. People truly feel that their particular "higher authority" is the one true higher authority and all others are laughably false.

The truth is: your upbringing, social settings and trials and errors are what determine your beliefs. If you were born into a brothel, brought up by prostitutes and told that sluttin' it up was the way into heaven, chances are high your "good book" would be the Hooker's Handout Guide. So, before heading out into the world and screaming damnation upon those who seem different, take a good look at the origin of your beliefs and see what rehashed material it spawned from. You might find that those crazy Pagans and their wild, white haired, jealous god Zeus has more in common with good ol' JC and the big guy than you imagine.

Ripples in the Water

2011-06-10T21:38:00.001-04:00

The average person encounters thousands of individuals on a daily basis. Within the short lifespan of these brief relationships little more than a glance will be exchanged. Yet, a glance on its own is powerful. It can brighten a dreary day and it can put a thorn in an otherwise pleasant afternoon. People rarely think about their importance in regards to those they share the world with. Somewhere along time people began to feel isolated and alone. However, this general feeling has not changed the symbiotic nature that we live in; it has only changed the daily interactions between people. If you take a look, a good look, at those who have impacted your life you will see that their intention was most likely not to make a mark in your history, but that they were simply acting as they do, going about being who they were. This is important to know because if we begin to notice our interactions with others and thus choose consciously our actions (more so than we did prior) we can begin to create a world that reflects more of a heaven than a hell.

Yes, one's inner frame of mind does indeed lay the foundations for our morality, our sense purpose; in fact all of the actions in our lives. This is the very essence of free will and inner reflection; it allows for us to choose what we do in this life and so gives us the option of making better choices as we evolve along our journey. The question is: What sort of ripples do you wish to make in this pond we all share?

The Power of the Dark Side

2011-06-10T00:04:00.001-04:00

Throughout history, humans have found ways to cover up their insecurities; some have been clever while others are downright pathetic. No excuse, however, has been more overused than that of religion. People cling to it like the saviors they read about, as if the religion itself were a self feeding autonomous being pulling the strings in their life. I do indeed see the beauty that springs from religion (or at least the origin of most religions). They seem to come from a desire to explain a connection that is truly unfathomable to human mind. Religion can give hope, it can give insight and it can offer guidance to those who feel lost. Sadly, however, religion's largest use has been that of a weapon, which is ironic due to the preachings of peace and love. Speaking specifically (though this applies to many other religions) about Christianity, people refer to the bible as their guidelines for moral fiber and even mental strength. The implication is that God wrote the bible for this purpose (and that humans are naturally empty of morality) and we should all refer to its pages to discover this lost treasure. Those who do not are lost souls dangled by Satan himself. Personally, this aspect alone seems like the biggest Ponzy scam ever created, but aside from that religion, in any form, is a tool. Use it to better who you are within, not to judge other people to make yourself feel better for your shortcomings. If all that comes from the "Almighty" designer is a world ruled by the wicked, I'd say the programmer made the mistake and should have done a better job. This, of course, is silly, as it is your responsibility (within) to be a good person and to make your own damn decisions in your life.

(It cannot be both "all part of His plan" and we "all have free will" at the same time.)

Pigeon Hold

2011-06-05T22:43:00.001-04:00

There is a common notion amongst people that true change is impossible. One often hears of this in terms of relationships; whether family, friend or lover. This concept just simply is not true. Change is quite possible. Those who need it most are, in many ways, seeking for a way to change. Because of the way we live and way we've grown up we are encouraged to look outside of ourselves for responsibility and place blame on those we deem our enemies. However, looking within instantly sparks the process for change and continuous introspection can and will alter a life course in ways the mind can only begin to imagine. This is not to suggest that people undergo years of abuse by the hands of someone close; I certainly am not suggesting anyone try to change another person. The greatest catalysts for change are changes in environment (it's hard to see light in murky waters), inspiration (knowing others have done it can light a big fire) and support (having loved ones there for you nourishes change like nothing else). Remember that it is rarely, if ever, too late for change. After all, our world survives by this very act.

Those Types of People Scare Me…

2011-06-04T21:13:00.001-04:00

Little else spreads as quickly as does bad information. Founded in fact or fiction, hearsay seems to spread at the speed of sound, even before spoken. Oddly, the more incorrect the information the quicker it seems to spread. What is worse is that people base much of their decision making off this sort of information. An example of this would be a woman I recently chatted with. We were unacquainted thirty minutes prior to this conversation, but in the midst of our chat she rather frankly stated "Oh, I am afraid of Oriental people. They scare me." My eyebrows raised and my head slumped ever-so-slightly as I wondered what on Earth could be the origin of such ignorance. However, as she began to describe these "Orientals" I began to form a clearer picture of why such stupidity flowed from her mouth. These "scary" Orientals paraded through the desert, wore turbans, carried curved swords, yelled "Allahu Akbar", and were, of course, responsible for 9/11… those silly "Oriental" folk just can't get a break.

Of course, any semi intelligent being will realize that it was not Oriental people but a very general Middle Eastern stereotype that scared this woman. However, while this seems like an extreme case of ignorance, it is, in fact, quite common. People are often afraid of what they don't know. And rather than finding out the truth many continue on with their assumptions and ignorance as if it will one day give them the upper hand in life. And while it seems safe to say that "if it weren't true there would be no stereotype, it is important to remember that these caricature images held in our heads are based off of poor observations of individuals; and while a group of individuals may share similar behavioral patterns or physical traits, to dehumanize people based on such a poor assumption only leads to the degradation of your own quality of life.

Fearing Success

2011-05-28T21:25:00.001-04:00

The old adage "There's nothing to fear but fear itself" is so very true, though we sometimes forget its potency. Why do we fear success? What is it that we run away from? Fear is the byproduct not only of dangerous situations but insecurity. In fact, danger in our society is rare. Oddly, many of us hold a high degree of potential within but refrain from unleashing that potential due to fear; fear of humiliation, let down or a wide host of other scary yet harmless situations. Think about how many times you knew there was something you should be doing to get you ahead, but you decided to do something completely useless and entertaining. Chances are your subconscious decided to shy from former. It did this to avoid dealing with this fear or insecurity of new change, positive as it may be. The next time you find yourself left with these choices, especially if it involves some form of change, investigate your decision and find out what is best and why you truly are avoiding the alternate choice.

The Oubliette of Emotion

2011-05-22T23:45:00.001-04:00

Negativity can spread like an infectious disease. It is not uncommon to see it bubbling out of the eyes of someone passing by or even in an acquaintance or loved one. The hard truth, however, is to take noticed of the virus of negativity within ourselves. This is definitely the one place the human ego tends to avoid. The reason for such avoidance is the perceived survival of the ego. It thinks that by feeding on negativity it will stay alive and even thrive. Negativity can feel "good", even when we say it doesn't; it can feel empowering, exciting and even entertaining. Often, it is easier to give in to negativity than it is to make the choice to refrain from joining in. If negativity sounds to you like an addiction to heroine you are right; negativity permeates the mind and ceaselessly craves for more. The problem, like any addiction, is the withdrawal period. Anyone who's ever been saturated by negative emotions knows the inundating feeling that arises during the aftermath of a long period of negativity. Some are so usurped by these feelings that negativity becomes a mode of living, and so they are blind to its effects; unaware of their addiction. An easy detector is to notice the surroundings of someone (or yourself). If there is a constant cloud of gloom that never seems to fade chances are the subject is locked within negativity.

If you wish to help someone or change this mode within yourself the first rule is to refrain from judging. This can be extremely tough because of the viral effects of negativity. A deep inner awareness is required (sometimes this means getting space before reimmersing yourself). Secondly, have understanding. This too can be a tough pill to swallow, as anyone charging at you with negativity can come off as hostile. However, if there was ever one thought to keep in mind it's this: when you're down and at your worst, you want others to see that you are not yourself and need help by way of understanding. So, it is prudent we give this to those around us.

The Short End of the Stick

2011-05-21T01:04:00.001-04:00

Few things stir the pot like being belittled does. The feeling of inadequacy can make a big man feel small and a smart man feel dumb. Whether truth is relevant to the situation or not ultimately makes little difference. The emotion is what stings. It seems that most people spend much of their time finding ways to avoid this feeling by proving themselves worthy in various ways. The bigger car, the largest breasts, the smoother skin, the most money, the most muscle; it's all a race to be superior. Funny enough, these antics only serve to reveal the true weakness of the culture let alone the individual. However, few, if any, are free of this sort of behavior, though some are most certainly worse than others. To truly be free of this, a person must not only see it in others but more importantly find where the feelings of inadequacy are within. They are there and at any given moment they may arise. The difference between the ignorant and the enlightened is the ability to handle these feelings when they arise. One will "prove" his worth while the other laugh at his own ignorance.

Beyond Measure

2011-05-18T00:00:00.001-04:00

Any amount of pressure will fold a man (or woman) into a ball. "Nature is brutal towards the weak, but not arbitrarily cruel" said Cesar Milan. During our darkest hours we feel the brunt of nature's fury. Many of us remain in a state of recoil, refraining from straightening out once more. You can see it in the average person's gait, their posture and their eyes. People are afraid; they're afraid to open up, to let loose and shine forth the beauty and power they hold within. Everyone has the potential to be great, but so few feel chosen to act on their nature. We have foolishly convinced ourselves that "I don't deserve". Nelson Mandela wrote "There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you". Yet, we do this all the time. We tell our children not to feel too good about their accomplishments or selves, lest they be viewed as "cocky" or "brash". It seems that so much time is spent on keeping face that no one pays attention to how they actually feel behind the façade. And while the gestures that we present are indeed the forefront of our presentations they are most certainly a reflection of an inner state.

Greatness spreads by example. Inspiration comes through witness of another's amazing achievements. "Your playing small doesn't serve the world." So, in that case, do something grand.

The Great Wall

2011-05-15T23:40:00.001-04:00

The phrase "you have a wall up" has become a common saying in society. There are two possible reasons for this. One is that it is just another trendy slogan to spout out to impress those around you. The second reason is that many people do have walls up and around their mind. Though I believe the first reason is partially true, the second seems the more prevalent. The funny thing about a "wall" is that the individual who "throws it up" commonly believes they are shielding themselves from the dangers of the world around them, whereas, in fact, they are playing a maze of a game mostly with themselves. Often this wall is nothing more than the inability to be open with others. This is not to say "spread your personal information and life story with the world". But, what are the benefits of always being disingenuous with those you do not know? Has this truly served anyone any justice? It is all too easy to pretend to be the image we wish others to portray us as, but all that happens when we do this is the complication of our relationships. One must ask him or herself "If I am rarely myself around other people and the majority of my time is spent with others, doesn't this mean I am rarely myself?"

The LaZBoy Experience

2011-05-13T22:21:00.001-04:00

America is a land of freedom, choice and expression. It is also a land of too much insurance, over processed food and ignorance of other cultures. There is a tendency, within the general populace, to assume that the idea that is America is the greatest idea to ever reach the mind of man. Yet, Americans (at least those born and raised in the states) are probably the most collectively ignorant of other cultures. There is a general notion that is indoctrinated within minds of the people that America is the end-all-be-all of the world; as if no other land or people have anything worthwhile to offer. A friend recently put it beautifully by saying "Americans often only learn about other cultures through the Discovery Channel". Sadly, this is true. Even those who do venture beyond the borders seldom seek a dose of the reality of the outside world. Those able to afford the pleasures of exotic vacation spots find just enough culture in the "odd" native who brings their cocktail while wearing a mockup of his or her traditional garb.

The world has much to offer; far more than your cable television and La-Z-Boy can provide. Every nation and every person has something to teach, whether they realize this or not. One who aspires or considers him or herself to be a progressive individual will find the best classroom not within the confines of the air conditioned college, but on the foothills of foreign territory.

What Goes Down

2011-05-10T23:34:00.001-04:00

You start off small in this world. You're a "nobody", except to your parents, until you enter school. From there, you find a rank within the social hierarchy. Some place high while others place low. However, throughout your youth this changes constantly. And then you hit the "real" world; now you are at the bottom once more.

Life goes like this for us all; it is a law of nature, and it is beneficial for continuation and evolution. But fear not, because while you may be at the "bottom of the barrel" you only have up to go. If you are on the top, do not fear the bottom. Falling down will only teach you how to deal with life in a more balanced manor. The real trick is not shielding yourself or your loved ones from the dangers of living, the trick is to learn and teach how to deal with these issues. Running teaches us how to escape, and it has its place, but facing our situations, especially at their roughest, provides a sort of wisdom that is invaluable.

Boxing the Infinite

2011-05-08T23:40:00.001-04:00

The universe is a massive place. To even label that infinite depth seems an injustice. However, we humans do everything we can to capture it within our brains. We claim to hold the answers. We praise ourselves on having mastered the science behind its workings. Truthfully, we are merely fish trying to understand the waters in which we swim. It is amazing the levels to which people will argue and fight, as if they were the lords of all.

If you sit back and marvel at space alone you will know just how small you truly are. Indeed, you are as much a part of the whole as the galaxy's largest star, but we must remain humble to the existence that cradles us. It is womb that bears us all. To view it as something external is an act of isolation. And we most certainly are not alone in this existence.

The Power of Honesty

2011-05-05T22:38:00.001-04:00

Being honest can be a tough task. In a "perfect" world all people would be honest at all times. However, perfection, as we conceptualize it, is an illusory idea. For instance, if a gunman will allow you to live if you tell him you like Snickers bars, but you don't, you might want fib, maybe just this once. And while this may sound a bit mischievous to the proclaimed saints amongst us, not everyone at all times can be open and honest.

There one place where honesty at all times is key. That place is within. No matter what you shield from the world; no matter where you are trying to hide, you cannot hide from yourself. Coincidentally, it seems that those who fib most are not so much lying to others as they are lying to themselves. Lying to oneself is extremely detrimental to personal balance and mental health, yet many do it all the time. Strangely, in our society, self deception is a common occurrence. Our subconscious minds may be screaming the truth but those mental words of manipulation somehow are louder. If you take the time, however, to be honest; if you face up to yourself, you will discover a unique power within. This power will pave the way towards all sorts of accomplishments. With it you can tackle issues, accomplish goals or even simply clear up old emotions.

The Shallow Depths of Happiness

2011-04-30T21:09:00.001-04:00

If there is one illusion that is most commonly sought after, it is a life full of happiness. No one can be permanently happy. This goes against the very laws of nature. A better word to replace it is contentment. Being content in your life situation is much more feasible than always being happy. Now, before the cynics throw the first stone let me explain. All emotions are fleeting. Sadness, happiness, anger, they only arise due to your perception of an external events. Yet, there is a common trend in our culture for people to chase after the dream of happiness. The satisfaction, however, will only be a fleeting moment, leaving you wanting more and feeling empty. To be content, however, is to search deep within and accept who you are and where you are for what it is.

Right now I can hear a million voices saying "No, I will not accept my present situation for what it is! If I do that I will be stuck here forever." Sadly, this very voice is the perpetuator of the situation. It's like being stuck in the middle of the water screaming and kicking because you cannot swim properly. To accept your life and your situation is simply to acknowledge where and who you are and not fight it. Also, by accepting this you give space to contemplate and create a new path. Strangely, when we do this, something far more potent than happiness arises. This new sensation may be considered joy, and its presence can exist regardless of the outside world.

Success

2011-04-22T12:53:00.001-04:00

It's interesting what we as a culture consider success. A man can stress himself out for years, forego the well being of others and cause untold amounts of pain and suffering, but as long as he has made money he will get a pat on the back and be held in high regard. The same is true for a country as a whole. A nation is no longer "Third World" (a useless and arrogant term) once it has acquired a certain number of shopping malls. It's no wonder America (as those with similar outlooks) are the most destructive forces on the planet. Are we that blind and stupid to our own perceptions? Can we not see that our conditioned outlook is to work against the flow of life? Any person who travels down a different road is considered a black sheep; an oddity that is best coupled with the prawns of society. And strangely, even those at the bottom of this sad pool continue to suck off the power rod, as if one day, if they tug hard enough, they too may share a part of the dream.

Perhaps these are just the foolish words of a hopeless dreamer, but true success is not gauged by how much a person has made. True success doesn't require a plague or Porsche. Success is an inner phenomenon that shines forth from the core of your being. It drives an individual to create manifestations that not only better the individual but also those he or she shares his grounds with. Success improves lives, not at the expense of the less fortunate, but with the inclusion of those who cannot see the surface of a murky ocean. Perhaps this is why names like Einstein and Salk continue to serve as beacons of light while Rockefeller will always be shrouded in controversy.

Seeing Beyond

2011-04-21T23:04:00.001-04:00

Negativity can spread like an airborne virus seeping into the open pores of the skin. It comes easy to the mind. It gives the mind much to chew on, constantly renewing the food it so desperately needs to survive and spread. Negativity will even defend itself like an autonomous being seeking to survive. It's almost funny. Walk around with a smile on your face and enjoy your life and people will actually attempt to tear you down. Some will even accuse you of wearing a fake smile. However, the majority of humans are in a state of insanity, and this is something to be recognized. To acknowledge the level of insanity that circulates within the average human mind is to understand that there is nothing personal about the negativity that seeks to spread. If you wish to remain above this state of being you must learn to see beyond; you must rise beyond it. The first step is to detect your reaction to the negativity. If someone says something to destroy your character do not defend. Furthermore, when the situation has ended, watch your mind, as it is this time that your mind will spend the most time trying to repair itself. You must learn to let go. You must allow the negativity to pass through.

In the Eyes

2011-04-20T23:58:00.001-04:00

We are very used to interacting with people on a very superficial level. We pass by countless numbers of individuals throughout our daily lives. Yet how many of those beings do we truly take the time to observe. I don't just mean looking at another person and thinking about who they are, what they are wearing or where they came from. I mean to observe without thought; to see another and feel that being as a reflection of yourself. It is a wonderful experience. One of the best ways of doing this is by sitting down with another (close in relation or not) and look each other in the eyes for five minutes. Do not talk. Do not look away. You can smile and you can laugh, but do not make any other noises. If you can drop your shield you will feel a strength within, a strength that lets you know you no longer need to run for cover. You may also witness (either within or in the other) a release. When looking someone in the eyes for this long it is not uncommon for people to let go of the pressure of baggage and unleash a wave of emotion.

Try this. You may discover much about yourself.

To See Another

2011-04-17T22:01:00.001-04:00

We are born into this world with our ears open and then come our eyes followed by the nose then mouth. Senses dominate our experience. They also help to create our perception. But there are other dimensions to life. One of those dimensions is the world of other people, and they too come with their own set of senses and perceptions. Sadly, most human interactions consist only of two perceptions bumping into each other. Rarely do people take the time to stop and observe. Usually, a preconceived notion is already formed when people congregate preventing any real communication.

In order to communicate with another person, let alone get to know them, we must stop forcing ourselves onto them. We must allow that person to have the space they need to be who they are. Anything else is an attempt to control and manipulate others, never seeing or feeling the individuals we come into contact with. It is totally possible, in fact common, for people to spend their entire lives like this.

How do you care to live?

The Book of Rules

2011-04-16T22:10:00.001-04:00

Morality is a funny concept. The very notion of it is so… arbitrary. Where does it come from? Are we born with a sense of morals or are our morals taught to us? Perhaps it is a combination of the two. As with most of these sorts of discussions, the later is the case. However, one hears so much about the arguments between both sides. I personally love to find the silver lining from all points of view, but on this one the case definitely leans towards a single direction. Books and words do not create morality. A review of history shows that heinous acts are committed by religious and non-religious people alike. The notion that non-religious folk are devoid of moral judgment because of their lack of faith (or reading) is asinine. An understanding of the law requires books and learned knowledge. But, a sense of morality is indeed embedded within. This is why we don't come out of the womb attacking our mothers; we have enough ingrained sense to understand and appreciate those who take care of us. Of course there are those who seem barren in terms of compassion or remorse. But the world of humans is a twisted place. Our ways of living strip us of our instincts and intuitions. Though, if there was one thing my intuition has caught on to it's that if I wanted to gather a group of followers to support my cause I'd tell them I had not only the answers and keys to salvation, but also the very thing that reminds us of our humanity: our morality.

The Older I Get

2011-04-14T23:51:00.001-04:00

It's strange, the life of a human. You're born out of a womb by a woman who's screaming at the top of her lungs, and then, zip, someone swings a knife across your bellybutton. Life is chaotic. However, there are plenty of moments that give us the taste of the opposite, plenty. In fact, it is this constant fluctuation that develops our minds into the splendorous contraptions they are. But, for those looking to avoid a few unnecessary bumps along the way, I've come up with a quick list of things to be on the lookout for:

Those quick to blame are taking pressure off of themselves
Nothing is permanent. Be wary of institutions that claim "infinity"
Truth is truth without the need to convince others
If you feel the desire to uplift you are strong
If you feel the need to tear someone down you are weak
It is ok to be both strong and weak, so long as it isn't in disregard of others
Love is a word that often describes twenty different feelings
People will let you down, do not hold expectations
Often ask the question: "Is it worth it?"
If it is worth it, ask: "Why the f^#% not?"
If you are mad at a celebrity for cheating on his or her spouse, you are avoiding a personal issue in your own life
Light and dark create each other, trying to eliminate the other is self defeating
Realize how many aspects of life #12 actually fits in (politics, religion, arguments… too many to list)
If you're at the top, chances are you will fall, if you're at the bottom you've got nowhere to go but to the top
Life will always give you problems to solve, so as often as possible put a smile on your face and enjoy your f*c%!n day

Truth Justice and… Ok We Lied

2011-04-10T23:10:00.001-04:00

Not too long ago, there was nary a man in America that spoke ill of his government. The grass was always greener on US soil. Every war was justified. And, the president spoke nothing but the God-honest truth. So, what happened? When did Shaitan himself waltz onto the land of the brave and home of the free? It must have happened when the darn Obama got elected. He ain't even American. My daddy said so.

However, like all fairy tales, it was all just an illusion designed to impregnate you and your younglings with ideals of unilateral support. This is because, while the core message of a "once perfect reality" seems to hold this great nation in honorific form, the truth is not so sugar coated. The truth is: people in power want to stay in power. Rarely, if ever, do they lead with standards of morality, fairness or balanced judgment in general. Simply look at every war that's ever been entered. From the invasion of the land already inhabited by Native Americans to the Iraq Invasion, America has primarily fought for land and resources (occasionally acting on defense).

However, this is not a bashing session, though it is very easy to bash blind patriotism, due to its blind ignorance. This is a message. Of course politicians lie and manipulate to get what they want; it's required by their career. The problem isn't the politicians and their corrupt ways. The problem is that "we the people" do not investigate the truth on our own. "We the people" prefer Disney coated truths rather than hard facts because, let's face it, Disney makes us feel good. But, life is a balance. We need the rainstorms of pain as much as we need the sunny days of bliss. Both are required for balanced living.

So, instead of getting angry at some politician for their "evil way", or worse, getting angry because he's not "your" politician, do a little internal and external investigation. You may find that blaming others for the condition of the world is a dead end and, worse, a contributing factor to the current state of insanity.

Separation Anxiety

2011-04-07T23:14:00.001-04:00

There is a common tendency these days for people to grow extremely attached not only to other people but also inanimate objects. And while there is indeed a healthy dose of attachment to anything, the all too common trend is to become grossly attached, to the point, even, of severe emotional breakdown when we lose what we held dear in our minds (nothing is "in" the heart… except blood). First, we must take a look at attachment itself. What is it? Where does it come from? And when is it unhealthy for us?

Firstly, attachment is the mind's desire to possess a holographic construction of something or someone it identifies with. The mind wishes to soak it up and make it a part of its world. Attachment comes from the notion that we need this something or someone to be more whole or more secure. Without it, the mind says, we are less of person. The unhealthy period is noticeable when "sad to see it go" turns into "What am I going to do without it" or worse "I cannot live without it". Cesar Millan, The Dog Whisper, called this the point when an admire turns into a stalker.

The truth is that all of us have the potential to latch on to something and feel as if we are powerless to control the emotional hold. Some are addicted to their attachments (some may consider them one and the same). No matter the case, we need to grasp hold of our minds, realize we are in control and see the reality behind what we are attached to. Separation anxiety can be one of the worst experiences ever and not only for the individual who bears the emotion. We all love admiration, but we all detest obsession.

Whose Will Is It?

2011-04-06T22:23:00.001-04:00

Beliefs can be very comforting at times. They can encourage, empower and entertain. However, there is a rather hilarious double standard that often accompanies beliefs, especially religious ones. You see it on the news. You hear it from people you know.

"It was the will of (fill in the blank)."

I've got no problem with this saying. The world is a divine place. I can see and even feel the presence of divine power within and outside of myself. However, the problem comes when the will shifts. You see, it's always some holy being's will when the situation is dire, the people are helpless and all must surrender. However, this changes when some a$$#0!e cuts another person off on the highway or say when the devil "possesses" someone's mind. What happened to divine power then? If everything is the will of God, why do we complain about anything? If there is evil in the world, it too must be the work of the holy one. Therefore, everything that happens is part of the "master" plan, including the school massacre and genocide.

I'm not one to tear down another person's ideas, but this notion unintentionally borders cruelty, at best it's just rude. Furthermore, it removes responsibility from the individual, especially when we say "the devil did it" or "it was the work of God". It cannot go both ways. Either the holier than holy is in control or "he" isn't. Either way, it makes people lazy, creates passivity and easily allows and invites manipulation.

God Hates Nags

2011-03-27T22:12:00.001-04:00

The rigors of daily life can weigh a man down. With a job, school, family and God knows what else, it's tough to get a break. This is why I can completely understand the reason for such animosity against the homosexual community. I mean, come on, to want the right to marry the person you love; to expect not to be judged when holding hands with the same sex; what the hell is the world coming to. No wonder there was an earthquake in Japan, it's because of those damn gay people… right?

Seriously, however, am I the only individual that finds anti-homosexuality to be a complete waste of time? I, for one, love a good scapegoat for my problems, so when I see an asinine organization such as the God Hates F@gs group I cannot help but wonder "What are those individuals running away from?" You see, I learned a long time ago, that 99.9% of the time, when someone is blaming someone else, or even worse, an entire group of people, for their problems they are covering some problem up in their own lives. Honestly, someone else's love life with a consensual of age individual only concerns the people involved. Perhaps the most useless topic of all is "is being gay a choice or a natural occurrence". If you are not gay and are not looking for a gay lover, mind your own god d@mn business. And as far as the loving God hating gay people, I would imagine that he has more important things to worry about. And let us not forget, everything that happens is God's will, anyways, so gays are just another part of the plan… correct?

“You Need To Speak American”

2011-03-26T19:02:00.001-04:00

"Nationalism is an infantile disease. It is the measles of mankind." – Albert Einstein

Patriotism, nationalism, "my country is the best-ism", it's all madness. When hearing the words "People should learn to speak English when they come to America" it makes me wonder, did the forefathers of this "nation" learn Navajo when they committed genocide against the natives. So easily history is forgotten and understandably so. Our schools teach a horribly fragmented view of past events. America is boasted as the greatest land on Earth by people who have never been anywhere else to compare it to. And our "borders" are promoted as physical landmarks, as if Earth felt that America was indeed the most valuable property she had to offer. This sort of ignorance seems juvenile when looked upon from a distance, but when emotionally mixed into it (and that's all that's going on, childish, emotional property claiming) people feel as if this land truly belongs to them. And while it seems almost taboo to say such a thing these days, this behavior is the equivalent of standing on the top of a hill and pushing everyone else off. But, much like a sign that says "Johnny was here" there is no real significance. Furthermore, just like that fool at the top of a hill trying to claim it as his own (or worse, claiming it was God given) he must eventually return to the bottom, because that is where all of the life nourishing resources are located. Let's imagine, just as a wild notion, that the folks in the Middle East had the defensive power to tell Americans and other invading countries to keep to their own business. We'd have no oil for our vehicles. Or the copper or zinc mines in Africa, lets imagine the developed nations weren't able to plunder their resources either. Well, there go your computers and cell phones. And then, let's take another second and just imagine, what if, just what if, we had resources that other countries wanted and they decided that they were blessed by the big white dude in the sky and warranted an invasion.

That would suck.

What You Should Be Doing

2011-03-23T21:37:00.001-04:00

With a human mind it is difficult, perhaps impossible, to be totally free of illusions. We conceptualize everything. Our environment, our relationships, even ourselves become just another figment of our mind's imagination. So rare are the times when we actually let go of our concept of reality and just observe it. This behavioral tendency lends itself all too often to the "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" of daily living. The problem is outside of moral delinquency, nature does not embed within us the massive list we are expected to know. Furthermore, we are always encountering situations that defy the things we "should" or "shouldn't" be doing. Often, this list comes up in relationships, life courses (and expectations) and daily activities. But what happens if someone does something they "shouldn't" be doing? If you aren't married, ask someone in a marriage how motivated they feel when their spouse tells them what they "should" be doing as a wife/husband.

Should is a dangerous word. It implies that reality is wrong, as if somehow the great laser that is reading the DVD of "My Life" is somehow playing it wrong. This, of course, simply is not true. The grandest illusion is the one we play on ourselves. Life is ever changing and constantly brining us hurdles to jump, it doesn't care if you have a broken leg.

Why Are You Always So Happy

2011-03-20T21:53:00.001-04:00

I'm not sure how it is in other parts of the world, but here in the U.S. of A. the common folk have a tendency to walk around with a perma-scowl on their face. It's as if every morning someone re-ran over their dog and then hung it for them to see. Perhaps this is why people feel threatened when they see someone who is usually happy or often in a good mood. Somewhere in our past, humans formed the notion that, once grown beyond the age of twelve, life is a miserable experience. And those who are enjoying their lives are somehow fooling themselves and bound for some great fall. This notion seems to have spawned a slew of other beliefs such as the dos and don'ts of adulthood (like video games should not be played once over 30), perceptions about relationships and finding job security no matter the job is a $#!T box.

Life, natural life, is not a stringent place. It is ever expanding and needs room to grow, chances to experience failure and opportunities to overcome boundaries. If there is one constant in life it's that change will always occur. Perhaps this is why there are only couples with small children at the zoo. Adults rarely allow themselves to experience child-like wonder. After all, it was that wonder that motivated us to explore who we are and what the world holds for us.

Uncomfortable Silence

2011-03-19T22:33:00.001-04:00

There is a reason why uncomfortable silences are so common. People, quite simply, do not shut off their minds. Most are unable to. And, sadly, many feel that they are vulnerable to attack when silence surrounds them. Why the feeling of discomfort? The answer, as always, lies within. The answer, in fact, is the same reason why people drink to "loosen" up. If people do not have a distraction to block inner reflection/introspection they are forced to face whatever madness is rolling around in their head. And, let's be honest, people today, all over the world, are used to blinding themselves to their problems. "If I do not distract myself, I will have to see what is really going on." – the ego.

So, when people enter silence, reality rears its potent head. The scene is akin to a gentlemen's bar. The neon lights are dim. The makeup is caked on like a cheap birthday cake. And all of the imperfections one would see in the sunlight are well covered. That is until the lights come on. That's when you see the train wreck you've been dazzled by for several hours. However, if you take the time to realize that you are indeed fooling yourself with extraneous cover-ups, such as relentless and meaningless chatter, drinking alcoholic to "loosen up" or even fidgeting with something because you are bored, you will begin to enter a far more splendorous reality.

The Off Switch

2011-03-16T23:49:00.001-04:00

Our minds are like broken recorders, constantly repeating what it heard from days and months or even years prior. We travel around, constantly living with this broken device, disturbed by the amount of noise it produces. Sadly, most do not know that it is their own mind that creates the dream or nightmare they live in. But there are those who are aware; those who caught a glimpse of the reality of their mind. At this juncture in life the next quest is to find out how to shut it off when necessary.

How? How does one go about shutting down the rollercoaster that keeps on going?

We must recognize that we have the ability. Our perception of our own abilities is crucial in this step. All of the worries about the past and fear over the future will not stop on their own. So long as man waits for the arrival of someone or something to save them, they will never be free. If you caught a religious commentary in that you are perceptive, IT IS! Christian, Jew, Muslim, Pagan, Atheist, Tarot cards, whatever you claim as your salvation, you have to start making choices for yourself and stop waiting for someone to save you, even your scientist. You have the freedom of choice so that you make mistakes and evolve from them.

This is your life and it is your mind. Take a deep look into it and find out what needs work. Get off you're a$$ and discover the noise that rules your world. Question everything. Don't take anyone's word for reality, not even mine. Investigate it. Put your mind to work and then learn to put it away when finished.

Why Not

2011-03-13T22:54:00.001-04:00

Fear is a debilitating force. It can be cause by a number of things. Mainly it is the mind's safety mechanism. It keeps us from venturing too far away from what we "should" be doing. Sadly, however, we humans have a horrible tendency to allow fear to prevent us from change, even if for the better. But if we face it, we can have life altering experiences that will forever improve our lives.

This is often the reason why people find themselves stuck in a reoccurring life situation. Countless numbers of people have let opportunities slip away, leaving them forever lost in regret.

Often, you hear the words "Why are you doing that?" in response to something new you are trying, as if trying something new is not only unnecessary, but also a foolish move only performed by a mindless dreamer. The response I have for these people is not an explanation as to my motives, but a very simple "Why not?" In fact, I'd like to give them a solid "Why the Hell not?"

Life is short. You can spend it bitching and moaning about the world around you, occasionally venturing outside of your comfort zone. Or, you can try some new $#!T out and live a little.

The Bane of Guilt

2011-03-12T22:20:00.001-05:00

Of all the emotions that I have lost friends over guilt seems to be the most corrosive. Anger and sadness, to the contrary of what may be expected, are often easily forgiven and surpassed. Guilt, however, eats away at the psyche; it forces its host to push away loved ones, it blames others as to avoid being dealt with, and it will lead to a slew of many other subsequent emotional reactions. Countless friends have faded away because they find themselves feeling guilty over choices that affect none other than themselves. An endless number of arguments have erupted because people choose to sublet their emotional responsibility onto others instead of dealing with their problems directly. Guilt can act like a cancer, quickly growing in the mind if not dealt with. Worse, even, is when the guilt is passed on to another and so carried through generations. American society can feel these effects directly.

A Very Good Reminder

2011-03-11T18:33:00.001-05:00

A very recent discussion/argument with a dear friend acted as an incredible reminder. Perception is our reality. We humans have a tendency to try to "convert" others into our ideological viewpoint without realizing we are doing so. We also tend to judge in the process as to make the other person see that our view is right and theirs is wrong. And this process works both ways. I found myself feeling the need to defend, as if there were a fort buried underneath my skin that this individual was "attacking". However, there is no fort, only an ideological barrier constructed by the ego. The beauty is the best way to end the war is to stop fighting. Weather the person is wrong or right does not matter. They are trying to warp you into their world and you are doing the same. An easy way to see if this is the case is to observe the discussion. Does it seem to be going somewhere? Are you listening to each other without the need to interject? Are you listening to each other's point of view or is it one sided on both sides? Do you find yourself or the other person saying "You aren't listening to me" (which really means "you aren't taking my side and stop defending yourself")?

Remember, when heated or even just talking, that it is very easy to judge another person for their actions and to call it "what it is". However, it is only "what it is" from your point of view. And, furthermore, judging a situation that you take no part in absolves you of personal decision making and responsibility; two factors that immediately change your course of action and perception if you were in the situation. So, in essence, when conversing with another person or even yourself, it is a very good reminder to remove judgment from the situation, no matter your age, sex or position.

After all, when was the last time you felt great after someone laid the hands of judgment upon you?

Uninhibited Habituation

2011-03-06T23:56:00.001-05:00

It's a common site. Crowds gather at the bar to chat and dance. People meet. Hips sway. And some, those lucky enough to woo the object of their desires, will reap the benefits of "cutting loose" (that is unless they catch something afterward, but that's a different blog). Life can be a blast when we cut loose, and not only at the city club. Unfortunately, for way too many, this release of inhibition comes only after a fermented beverage has slipped into their gullet.

Why only then? Why not face the demon that stops you from cutting loose at your own will?

I could answer that, but truthfully, people need to investigate their individual answers, no matter how common it may be. My point here is that we as a whole need to begin to face our fears, if not with the toughest of situations then at least when we are having fun.

Humans have run their course in stagnation for long enough. It's time to evolve, damn it! This is not a plea to get people to stop drinking; it's a plea to get people to think about doing something on their own. Drink responsible, of course, but also try to enjoy yourself with the need of some external source.

Learn to enjoy what you do without needing your brain functions to slip away by some external force.

Hail To The King

2011-03-05T19:38:00.001-05:00

There once was a King whose rule presided over a vast and prosperous land. He was a just and merciful ruler, never demanding too much or giving too little. He cared for his subjects and they in return gave him unwavering loyalty and respect.

One day, however, a band of madmen came from a far away land. They were jealous of the peace, harmony and abundance the King and his people shared. In spite, they poisoned the water supply turning the kingdom mad. Soon, no drink would quench the people's thirst. No amount of pleasure would squelch people's lust. They now demanded more and gave less.

The King was the only one to avoid drinking the tainted water supply, but he was now alone. He did what he could to give the people what they wanted, but soon the kingdom's abundance turned to depravity. For months the kingdom's people pounded on the gates of the castle demanding the King be killed for his betrayal. For, they felt it was he that was mad.

Before long, the people broke through and stormed their way to the King's quarters. With little option left, the King drank the tainted water becoming poisoned and mad himself. It was on this day the people rejoiced.

Where Moth and Rust Consume

2011-03-03T22:54:00.001-05:00

These days, one often hears much about the "ego". Many gurus and spiritual teachers talk about it.

"The ego is this…" "The ego will do that…" "Take control, don't let your ego rule your life…" But what is the ego? What is this thing that all of a sudden seems so negative and detrimental to our health and living?

The ego is like dog living your house. However, in most people's homes, the dog is untamed, neurotic and out of control. It is this way because people don't realize they are creating the imbalance that forms its bad behavior. Our lifestyles and trains of thought are often the root cause of this. And often, when on a journey of self discovery, people turn the ego into an enemy or worse, some monster that's out to get them. The ego is a function of the brain run amuck. The key is to put the ego into perspective and learn to work with it. A person can never get rid of the ego. For one, it's just a word. And why try to get rid of something that's largely just a mental construct anyways. That will drive a person nuts. That's also why so many people are looking for answers and never resolving anything.

The key to this life is balance. Realize that you are more than just a bag of bones but know that the bag and the bones are equally important to a healthy life. After all, all of the Earthly pleasures, treasures and all else that moth and rust consumes is part of the reason you are on the planet. Don't forget that.

The Big Pixel

2011-02-26T19:16:00.001-05:00

For so long people have asked: what are you? And, no, this particular question isn't in regards to my racial ethnicity. No, this question refers to "What religion are you" or "What do you believe in"? So, I would like to open up to world, or at least to those who read this).

The world is a giant game, no, not a board game but a video game. I am certainly not inferring that we are all just plugged into a wall and turned on by the push of a button. Instead, what I mean by this is that the world has two levels. There is the relative level of what we see and constantly interact with. And then there is the "essence" of our reality. You see, like a video game, the universe is basically made up of seemingly endless amounts of particles floating around and charged up by electromagnetism. Whereas pixels and polygons create the image we see on TV, subatomic particles, atoms and molecules makeup what we see in the "real" world. Truly, however, reality is simply a highly organized and balanced virtual landscape, crafted in such a way that we may interact with it. There is no off button, but there is an entrance point called consciousness. When you reach this level (you know you love it) you are now a player in the world and can begin to contribute to reality.

Yes, I know, this may sound weird or even dorky to some. But, let's face it, there are far stranger ideas floating around in peoples' heads. Perhaps "God" was just a developer who managed to create a best seller ;)

Control

2011-02-24T23:41:00.001-05:00

In all of our efforts to make the perfect world there is one constant that people will always face. We cannot control other people. We can enslave. We can bribe. We can even manipulate and convince. But we will never have complete control over other people. And aside from dictatorial domination, do you really want to control those you have relationships with? Controlling myself is hard enough, I sure as hell don't want to keep watch over what other people say, do and especially think. Yet, as simple as this fact may be, we are so conditioned to try to control others in our heads that we don't realize we do this all of the time. The very instant you get upset, the very second you react back your efforts are to control the situation and often other person. Of course, we need to insert our influence in much of what we do. However, we need to keep in mind that other people have the right to do what they do (so long as it does not infringe), feel what they feel and, perhaps most importantly, think what they think. This is the very foundation of freedom and no one on this Earth has the right to take that away. Humans need to feel that freedom within in order to have a healthy balanced life. And while feelings are ultimately the individual's responsibility, we all can help out by respecting other people's private space and freedom. That is, after all, what everyone wants.

The Blind Walk

2011-02-22T23:15:00.001-05:00

All of us are extremely used to our senses. So much so the less dominant senses can grow dull or even dormant. So, in an effort to expand and open those who are willing to try, I suggest an experiment. I call it the Blind Walk. With a friend (someone you trust), make way to a location you can walk around with little trouble. Your task is to walk around with your eyes closed for at least 30 minutes. Your partner, the walker with his eyes open, he or she is to guide you around allowing you to feel and touch different objects, leading you through areas with intense smell or heat, anything that will open up your other senses. Do this at a park or in a mall. Walk through the airport or even down the street (always, of course, with a capable and trustworthy friend). I promise you will experience something euphoric.

In a Big Damn Hurry

2011-02-20T23:49:00.001-05:00

There's nothing like a good ol' snow storm or blizzard to bring out the madness in people. Don't get me wrong, walking through the woods surrounded by the beautiful serenity of nature's purest tears is as calming as ever. However, when people get into their metal monsters and hit the road, something changes. The Jekyll that exists off the road opens up into a road raging Hyde when behind the wheel. All for what; to reach a home full of screaming kids, to pull into the store parking lot five seconds to one minute earlier, just in case the registers have a freak accident and shut down for the evening? The sad thing is that only after crashing into a tree or, worse, into someone else does the inpatient speed-racer realize the futility in flooring their vehicle through the extremely hazardous roads.

So, if you find this to be you on the road, ask yourself: Do I really need to rush through the snow and, honestly, do I really want to get there that much faster?

Where Did It All Go?

2011-02-18T23:22:00.001-05:00

Of all the subjects that stir the pot death, it seems, stirs the largest. Perhaps it is people's fear of the potentially end all be all of the inevitable that scares people, or perhaps it is the fact that none of us truly know exactly what will happen. We have ideas, beliefs and theories; we have science and religion, but in all honesty we have no concrete evidence of what happens to the consciousness that is us when we perish. How do I of all people know this to be true? Because, we are all still alive. And perhaps that is it, perhaps death, like so much else, is all just an ironic aspect of existence that we worry so much about, but is far different than our minds can comprehend at this time. Perhaps, just perhaps, instead of worrying so much about what happens when we die (where we will go, what we will remember and so on) we aught to live out each moment of life wondering about life. After all, it is those very moments of life we spend worrying and scrambling to protect that get lost while doing so. Seems like a waste...

The Evil Doers!

2011-02-16T23:38:00.001-05:00

It is a bold move to label someone as evil, even more so to clump up an entire group and remove all aspects of humanity from them. Insane or not, people are always people. And contrary to what some may think, there is no man or woman born "evil". To think in such a manner is a feeble attempt to dehumanize someone in an effort to remove all complications of personal morality. It's much easier to attack at an evil person. And it's much easier to kill an "evil" person. If they are "evil", born that way and possessed by the devil, you are in the clear from all moral faults. And by implication, the higher powers that forged this world into what it is are inherently on your side. This is why, for some odd reason, God seems to only bless America, as if the rest of the world, especially those in the "evil", usually "darker-skinned", regions of the globe, don't deserve divine blessings. Let's face it, how often do you hear anyone saying "God bless the whole world, especially those who are most troubled." Wouldn't divine intervention be most useful to a man or woman who acts "evil"? Don't they need the guidance and direction of an all powerful, all knowing supreme being?

Creation Continuation

2011-02-13T23:49:00.001-05:00

Creation is the most important aspect of my humanity. It is what has led us to all of our achievements on the course of our evolution. It is also a driving force for much of what I do. Everything from written book, to a very imaginative photo, to even the changing of my oil brings about a sense of incredible satisfaction. It ties me to the world in a way that is hard to describe. Some of us forget the importance of creation. Some get so wrapped up in the monotony of daily life their veins dry up into a barren wasteland of pseudo depression. If this applies even remotely to you, take time out of your day and unleash some of that creative power. It doesn't have to be in the form of art. Creation comes in a plethora of ways. What is most important is that you discover your outlet and "unleash the beast" within. To not do so is to slowly and dreadfully waste away in an abyss of stagnation.

All For What?

2011-02-10T22:56:00.001-05:00

For thousands of years men have slaughtered each other for power, land and glory. Countless people have died in the name of this insanity. Some argue that it as simply human nature, as if we are born blood-thirsty and willing to kill millions for the sake of power. Some even boldly state that the evolution of man (leaving us with the current oligarchy that rules most of society) has simply been survival of the fittest, as if killing others for sake of dollars and polluting the planet to uninhabitable conditions is somehow a fit. Humans are like a cancer that has overgrown. Unlike all of the other stable and balanced creatures that we share this planet with, humans do not know when to stop. Instead of fighting to defend, people manipulate and conquer. And now that we have mapped out the world and reached the tips of the globe there is no more land left to claim. Instead, we now swoop in and steal vital resources so that our iPhones can play more music. Taking a look at human history, people seem like spoiled children, left without parents, who feel that everything belongs to them. With no guidance or balanced leaders, the over indulgent brats roaming the planet eat themselves into obesity and use their weight to bully around those without privileges. Perhaps what we need is massive spanking in the form of an asteroid. Or, perhaps we can grow up, alter our self detrimental behavior and realize that we have to be careful of the way we treat others and the planet.

Tomorrow the Sun Will Rise

2011-02-09T20:55:00.001-05:00

For reasons numbering, I'm sure, in the thousands, society has grown to become extremely negative, depressed and self-defeating. People feed on drama as if it were a needle of heroin waiting to be injected into the arm. Television is used, primarily, to exacerbate people's anger, sadness and fear. Schools tell you that you are worthless without respect from your peers (by way of very strong subliminal messages). And there is always some new existence-ending date that arises on our calendar. Our fight or flight responses cannot tell the difference anymore between real danger and mental manipulation. The irony is real danger is so rare in developed nations one must turn on the television just to get a taste.

But, when we sit back, relax and observe; when we let go, cease the need for constant and total control, our minds make a switch. The primal drive for drama stops and the world changes before your eyes. The chaos of the world becomes a molecular dance, much like the inner workings of a body.

As often as you can, that is any chance possible, take a step back, breathe and observe your world without judgment "Because tomorrow the sun will rise. Who knows what the tide could bring?" -- Chuck Noland, Cast Away

Ambiguity

2011-02-05T15:30:00.001-05:00

The world of man tires desperately hard to find its identity. A single person can spend an entire life trying to find out who or what they are. And while the joke is that instead of looking within people search outside for "their" persona, we have come up with some very interesting notions about what constitutes "what I am".

"I am a dentist"

"I am a Christian"

"I am a good person"

The above statements are common place and seem relatively harmless but the same notions will lead to:

"You are a criminal"

"You are a terrorist"

"You are evil"

It can seem "right" or even justifiable to label someone as this or that, but you are truly doing harm to yourself and your community. Because of our beliefs and mentalities over the past few millenia, we have grown accustomed to punishing and persecuting people for their beliefs and actions. We have also grown accustomed to finding a mold and trying to fit within it. How can anyone be a "Christian"? There is nothing there to "be". The same is true about "being" a terrorist. Both of these terms are ambiguous. They imply that somehow the individual has altered on some real level and are now empowered by the word or belief. This is not true... at all. The same notions that empower a Christian empower today's "terrorist"; that is the belief that a higher power is rewarding them for their actions, beliefs and devotions. In fact, today's "terrorist" and today's Christian are spawned from the same religious background, believe in the same God and believe they are going to the same Heaven (and the notion that they will receive 72 virgins is a mistranslation, it's actually 72 WHITE GRAPES that give light!!!) .

And while the actions of a "terrorist" are indeed detrimental to society, it seems time we grow up and understand people's actions instead of labeling them as over simplified terms so that we may look at ourselves are better than they are.

How It All Starts

2011-02-01T23:42:00.001-05:00

There are so many religions in the world. When one observes from afar, the options indeed resemble a buffet platter, sprinkled with a wide assortment of delightful tastings. However, as history has shown, what starts out as a prophetic and wise teaching often lends way to manipulation, torture and death. I mean, how does the notion of freedom from oppression, spiritual awakening (on a very personal level) and love turn into what we have seen over the past few millennia? With an open mind, it is actually very easy to see how.

Indeed, the great teachings of love and awakening are usually at the core of many teachings. But there is one common element that brings religions to a state of chaos. The belief that one person is special over all others is this element. Usually this individual gathers a following and rightly so; he or she is making sense in a world of corruption and chaos. But when that persons dies, the "savior" is gone and people are left in disarray (or the person becomes corrupted). Because the "common peoples" faith was placed outside of themselves they are left without guidance. And so it is easy for power hungry people to come in, spew out a few motivational words and take charge against the oppressors. And so the cycle starts all over.

This statement certainly doesn't just apply to the Big Three. Even faiths such as Buddhism have become riddled with extraneous matter.

The Buddha and many other religious figure-heads didn't seem like the ritual sort. In fact, if I read correctly, Jesus and many others in this gang seemed to protest against ritualistic practices. However, their images certainly keep people in line these days.

Disclaimer: If "your" religion (that is the one true faith unlike the other false ones) fits into this category, fear not, this statement is certainly not for you.

Time to Change

2011-01-31T21:49:00.001-05:00

The old adage "Those who fail to learn from their mistakes are doomed to repeat them" may be engrained into the memories of most modern day citizens, but few people actually take this slogan to heart (or mind). Though, it can be hard to change old habits. Sometimes I even find myself repeating the same technique at the same angle wondering if the next attempt will make a difference. However, there is, as of now, little room left for this sort of error. For how long can we hold on to this ignorance as a whole? Individually, repeating the same old mistakes can lead to relatively insignificant consequences, but collectively the impact is much greater.

Change is a great thing, it is, in fact, a requisite for survival. One of the features that led to the amazing evolution of the human species is our ability to adapt and see the world from a greater perspective. So, what's happening now? It seems that we've hit a block in the road and got cozy. Perhaps pressure need to build up for people to see that it's time to get moving again, (such as a severe crisis or disaster) but the fate of man in uncertain. Being part of the gene-pool, I for one hope enough people can alter their awareness to create the change needed to survive.

Horrorscopes

2011-01-26T22:41:00.001-05:00

Very recently, there has been much talk about the insertion of the new horoscope sign Ophiuchus. And, while this new sign broadens the scope of daily and monthly predictions of fortune and trouble, it also signifies something of importance. You see, Ophiuchus didn't just waft onto the Ecliptic line of Zodiac signs, it has been there for a very long time. However, because of what we are used to the sign has been largely neglected by horoscope readers.

(So, you mean to tell me that I am not an Aries? Damn it! Now I won't win the lottery)

But, were these predictions something to live by in the first place? Can a piece of paper tell you who you are and what you should do. To some, the notion of zodiac predictions was a farce from the start, but for many others it was a sign for hope or guidance. Sadly, like those who claim the future is written on a deck of cards, it is indeed an illusion. And while I personally know that there is much more to existence than what we can detect or know, it is too easy to rely on someone else to predict your future. This is another form of security that keeps you stuck and prevents you from exploring the unknown. No one can tell you your future, and if they could your future will have changed in that instant. Life is what you make it. Don't wait for next weeks predictions to give you further instructions.

Every Breath You Take

2011-01-24T23:29:00.001-05:00

Of the plethora of words in the English dictionary, there is one in particular that conjures up many notions. In Latin there were more than twenty terms and definitions for love, and rightfully so. So, what is love? Is it that painful feeling one has when longing for a mate? Is the inability to let someone go beyond your sight? Perhaps love is the emotion you feel when have that special someone in your arms. And perhaps it is that unbearable emotion you feel when you think about them with another person.

If so, this notion of love is not that far off from what a stalker feels; constantly waiting around the corner to see the person of his or her affections, thinking about them constantly, unable to get them out of his or her mind. What is the difference... the intensity? Perhaps our notions of love are a bit off from what we originally intended them to be. Perhaps we are so used to turning everything we want into a possession of ownership and so lose sight of its true value. Perhaps this is the reason for such a high divorce rate.

In any case, it is interesting to think about and review the ideas and concepts we hold dear like love and marriage, only in marriage people feel they have the right to own another person (now that sounds like slavery).

Disconnected

2011-01-19T23:35:00.001-05:00

A physicist once said to me "I've seen particles bounce in and out of our dimension. But I don't know how we are all one." The look on his face was that of a man who felt alone and isolated. He seemed distant and lost. At that moment I wondered how a man so intelligent could feel so disconnected from the world. We are as separate from each other as our cells are separate from the rest of our body. And if you only pay attention to the outer shell and concept of who you are, you will not feel your connection with the rest of the world.

Disconnecting ourselves within our mind can lead to a feeling of disparity, loneliness and ultimately depression. Sometimes humans feel that knowing how the world works will solve the problems of humanity. They may even feel that what they see takes them a level higher than their fellow humans, but it does not. We are all connected in ways our mind cannot fully understand. Seeing and knowing is wonderful, even helpful, but to complete the experience we must go deeper, we must feel within and become aware of the world without the need to label it.

Synchronicity

2011-01-16T23:57:00.001-05:00

Our existence is a funny occurrence. There are six point whatever billion beings roaming the planet, mostly looking just to get by. And throughout this seemingly meaningless existence it becomes very easy to forget our connection to this world. We tend to lose our connection, or rather the feeling of connectedness. But I have noticed something; the more aware one is of the synchronicity the more he or she begins to open up a world mystic coincidence. It is as if you are digging your roots deeper into the ground and so are able to utilize more of the life source that fuels the world. To some this will sounds odd, but to others it makes perfect sense, and is also a potentially splendid reminder. Take time out of your day to relax and meditate. Ease your mind and feel within. Not only will this relax you but it will reconnect you to the source from which you came. The deeper you dive, the more synchronicity will manifest.

Five Things Uniquely Human

2011-01-12T23:43:00.001-05:00

Human beings are a special bunch. Imposable thumbs, cognitive thinking, the use of toilets, these are but a fraction of our unique traits. But what really stands out, what really makes us different, are our actions. Humans have the most unique behavior of all creatures that roam the Earth. And as a salute to my fellow kin I would like to name some of the greatest actions/behaviors we humans are prone to doing.

Yelling, cursing, or fuming at an inanimate object – This one is brilliant. It really displays our abilities to distinguish and discern.
Punching, kicking or throwing inanimate objects – This one's even better as there is no way to tell your service provider that they are failing at their jobs like breaking your $400 cellphone.
Screaming "Calm down!" to someone who is irate – People really don't "get it", do they? This way you lead by example.
Creating peace by declaring war – The world is full anger, hate and violence and there's only one way to eliminate it: kill the enemy, his allies and his sympathizers. Doing this will certainly bring heaven on Earth.
Telling someone their belief is wrong and yours is right – Let's face the facts, God wants everyone to get into heaven, that's why he put one book in the hands of a select few in a very small section of the world.

To be continued…

Humanity After

2011-01-10T23:53:00.001-05:00

The shooting of Gabrielle Giffords and several others was awful, as are most shootings. It was senseless, to say the least. Upon hearing of the incident I decided to investigate and see more of what happened. Normally I steer clear of commentary posted on sites like youtube, but this time I wanted to read more. After seeing comments like "I bet you democrats wish there were some gun totin Tea Partiers around" reminded me of exactly why I don't read them. Keeping in that the people writing these comments could range from nine year olds to lunatics released from the penitentiary eases some of the frustration. But there were plenty of comments of this nature, and not just on youtube. Perhaps the question "What is wrong with some people" is useless… but wow. To wage in political propaganda in an incident like this is not only childish but inhumane. And it isn't just happening on Youtube. It's everywhere. The woman was shot. Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Space Martian Supporter, her blood was red. She was just as human as any other.

Is this truly best that people have to offer? "If she's not on my side she deserved what she got?" What about the other's that were wounded and killed? Just now with the typing of her name resulted in the voting poll of: "Did she deserve it?" I know people "really" are that stupid, but I cannot help think that this sort of mentality is most certainly the demise of our species.

Burrowed Inn

2011-01-08T23:19:00.001-05:00

Winter is, perhaps, the most fascinating of seasons. It has been called the season of death. Its weather is the most dangerous, crops have a tough time growing… life seems to want to halt in general. But, as a human being, we have the privilege of making the choice to step out from our Inns and witnessing the wonder of winter. In fact, as dwellers of this often frigid land I recommend one does this every day. Burrowing one's self within the confines of manmade walls can and will drive a person to severe physical and emotional unbalance. As stated before, we need to expel energy, this is a must. But because of the cold and our lifestyles it is very easy for us to lock ourselves in with the heaters on full blast and the televisions turned on. However, what we do not see immediately are the slow mechanics of depression, anxiety, agitation (among many other mental problems) starting to turn. Not to mention the lack of vitamin D from the sun. This message might seem like a pretty obvious reminder, but trust me; it is very easy to burrow yourself in, only to find that you now posses a slew of emotional issues (all within a week).

Like a Mosquito in Your Ear

2011-01-07T00:08:00.001-05:00

Personally, I love to listen to people explain their problems. I find it challenging to find a way to communicate with someone who is having a hard time. Different people require different methods of communication. Though there is one thing I have noticed. When dealing with someone who is completely addicted to their problems, they will repeat themselves in such a way that completely avoids hearing what you have to say, even if they are still asking for help or advice. This is a particularly challenging scenario. A person who repeats themselves in order to find clarification is one thing, someone who repeats themselves unconsciously, totally usurped by the thoughts running through their mind is a totally different scenario. What is interesting is that this is a common trait among the average citizen in our society. People walk around blabbing to themselves repeating the same messages in their head verifying their own beliefs. This behavior is a form of validation. It is also insane. Subsequently, it gives people a sense of separation from world around them.

Imagine a world full of people like this. It would seem chaotic, wouldn't it?

What Lies Beneath

2011-01-04T20:58:00.001-05:00

There are many unquenchable desires that exist in intimate relationships. Aside from the obvious, the most common desire is that of the need for excitement. Nearly all people exhibit this behavior, but rarely are people aware of it. Things usually start off "perfect". You meet each other, there seems to be a pull towards the person so strong you cannot help but feel it is beyond you. The courtship goes spot on. He's Mr. Cool and calm, somehow finding a way to impress all of her friends. She's a catch with her balanced display of sex appeal and respectability. And then it happens, that magical moment of intimacy. All seems perfect. Love blossoms.

But, 6 to 12 months down the line things aren't so new. The initial appeal is over. Things seem monotonous and somewhat bland. However, there is a new way to keep the juices flowing. The first fight breaks out. You get over it, but it seems to give way to other arguments. Now, the blood pumps over little things. There is an addictive need to complain to your friends about the other person's behavior. Things heat up even more and on and on until the negativity is too much for the body and mind to take.

Is this the cause of a bad spouse or is this the result of an inner monster that has been dormant for so long and now has its outlet?

How Much Further?

2010-12-31T20:33:00.001-05:00

The older I get the more one thing seems to increase, and that is people's need to drink when out. It being New Year's Eve, dinking comes to be expected, and this is fine. I certainly am not out to denounce other people's enjoyments. However, this is not uncommon during every other holiday, event or social gathering in general. Rarely, it seems that people ask themselves why they must drink when around other people. Are other people that hard to be around? Or is the issue a much deeper one? Perhaps the problem is not other people, but you. Maybe there is a sense of discomfort within, as if letting go and being genuine is too tough. Perhaps there is a fear of opening up around others and the drinking is a defensive mechanism. Or, perhaps the drinking is an effort to show others a side to you that you are not able to access on your own, or even a combination. In any case, when does this seemingly harmless habit turn into a problem? It is so common, unconscious and socially acceptable that people don't notice the harmful effects of this need to drink away social discomfort.

Sometimes I wonder what the world would be like without our need to fuzz out our awareness. What are we afraid of?

Your Share of the Mess

2010-12-29T21:18:00.001-05:00

No one wants to carry the burden of the past on their shoulders. It seems unfair that the past actions of other people you had no control over have left you with a task to clean up their mess. But, if it is not you who makes a better world, who else is left? Are we to wait for others to improve our quality of life? Are we to wait for the afterlife to enjoy our time? Perhaps it is the responsibility for some divine being and "his" will to take care of every man and woman. Thankfully, and sadly for some, this is not the case. Whatever beliefs you hold, your life is your responsibility. And, the present is your responsibility too. We are not separate from the world as a whole. We are individual parts to one body and if something is wrong, it is not wise to wait for another to fix the issue. Our issue as a species is the dream-like state of consciousness the collective human is living in. We are largely unconscious; most live unaware of their actions or the actions of others. More and more people see themselves as completely isolated from the whole and act accordingly. The result is a total disregard for life. For a very disturbing view of these results please watch this http://www.imzaia.com/forum/topic/show?id=6284887%3ATopic%3A19037&xgs=1&xg_source=msg_share_topic

There is only one way to change the course of humanity's path, and that way is within. We must bring awareness within ourselves and by doing so have a greater understanding and appreciation for the differences of others. If we do not, if we continue with this course of action and ignore our responsibility to raise awareness, we will perish from the face of this Earth, much like that of a bad virus eradicated by some cure in the form of flood, famine or ice age.

Eradicating Ignorance

2010-12-27T21:08:00.001-05:00

War is raging. Disease plagues our race. Millions of children starve everyday with no hope of eating a healthy meal. The world sucks! Better yet, human beings suck (why give the world a bad rep because of one misbehaving species). However, why let this drag you down? Indeed, the world's problems are many and often overwhelming, but improvement starts with the individual. And there is only one way to change the world in a different direction, you must make the change within. If there is no change on an inner level, the same behavior we complain about today will simply manifest itself in a new situation. There are no inherently evil people (I'm sure there are a few people who will grow furious at that statement). Evil, rather, is symptomatic reaction to an environment. A lack of balance and correction in an environment can and will fester evil behavior. So, the next time you see behavior that appalls you, take a step back, breathe, and find out what change is truly needed. If you do not, you may very well find yourself yelling at someone because they were too loud.

A Speedy Recovery

2010-12-22T21:31:00.001-05:00

The idea of perfection is (largely) an illusion. Most of the time, when a person believes to have achieved it, it is because events went according to their plans. Quite often, however, we are set up to fail in some form or another. But this is a good thing. Perfection, in the way I will use the word, is not the ability to always win, succeed or get what you want, but rather to flow with the order of life and so respond to the situation at hand in the way best suited. Emotionally speaking, most people hate it when they lose their cool. Often the results are a lingering negative sensation in the abdomen and residual heavy vibration throughout one's body. For those of you on a journey of personal development, you might feel as if you've "fell off the wagon" when you revisit your old mood. Perhaps something upset you. Perhaps you fell into another depression after a period of bliss. This can seem devastating and potentially give a sense of hopelessness. But I tell you this, remain strong, know that all journey's have roads with bumps and curves. Remember that to be where you are now takes much insight and depth. And while you may have been pulled in by the ignorance of another or your own, it was needed. For these are the trials provided for you. This is your game and any opposition you encounter is only designed to strengthen the player.

Keys to You Kingdom, In Response…

2010-12-19T19:29:00.001-05:00

The transformation happens on its own if you let it. The challenge is not learning how to change but how not to grab on to the insanity once you are free. You already have the recognition. Giving yourself space from entertainments and addictions will increase your awareness power and motivation for change. Also, remember that a drowning woman will crave for air only when she is under water. When you are free and above you will not see air in the same perspective. And likely, she will kick and fight and thus be tortured by the thought of drowning, but all she really has to do is stop fighting and allow herself to float up (which happens naturally)．So in the same respect if you are trying to gain access to your inner power Stop trying to get it, understand it, know about it. The power is already there. The best way to recognize the power is to use it. Try it with something small, or by remembering a time you've used your inner power to improve your life. Putting this power into action will of course bring instant recognition and that is the best way to feel encouraged. I suggest taking a current problem or situation, perhaps something small at first, and putting this to the test. Don't wonder why you haven't made change or how to make change, simply focus on changing. When your old habits pop, know that this is not change and alter your behavior. If you feel as if you cannot recognize the difference, give yourself some space. Meditate, take a walk in the woods, relax with no entertainment, so on...

Keys to Your Kingdom

2010-12-19T18:03:00.001-05:00

A reader (Light Inquest) recently brought up a very valid and very important question: "… once deeply mired inside the cage (of mental imprisonment), how would one realize that one actually has a choice to get out of it in the first place?" This question is perhaps the greatest obstacle on our journey, as indeed a blind man cannot see what is in front of him. The real beauty, however, lies within the breakdown (as Dido puts it). When the fictional world comes crashing down, and it always does in some fashion, there lies within that crash an opening and so an opportunity. As stated in previous blogs, life always gives us chances to succeed, but it is up to us to utilize these chances when they are available. If you are ready, you will utilize the opportunity before you and transcend the illusion you have been living. If you are not ready, if reality or a lack of "security" is too much to handle, your mind will create another security blanket and form another fictional mental reality for you to live in, using your addictions as fuel. An example on a grand scale was the events of 9/11. It was an excellent opportunity though largely missed. On a small scale, personal break downs can be seen in break-ups, death of loved ones, any type of loss, etc…

Now, though this breakthrough is a phenomenal (pun intended) and transformative experience, it is possible and even likely that your addictions will creep up and subdue you once more. This is okay. Life is a game, and this is an opportunity for you to sharpen your skills. Deep within you know what you want and where you want to be. Bring this to cognition. Feel the power latent within you and create your world. Anything that seems to be a hindrance is actually a tool for you to sharpen your blades. As for other people and the fate of mankind, let them be; do not try to change them. Instead be the change you wish to see.

Inside the Cage

2010-12-18T21:24:00.001-05:00

Being upfront and honest, our life-styles are the equivalent of a heroin addict strapped to a needle, his feed of drugs supplied by pimp, all so that he may whore himself out for a stretch of a dollar to keep himself hooked. It's sad when you think about it, but true. There is entirely too much to distract us. This is certainly not the fault of some "greedy" corporation, as they only "feed the need" (or demand, rather). The important thing is to unplug. We need to break free from the addiction of distraction as often as possible. For, to stay constantly connected to our addictions is to bring about a slow death. Life turns grey and the source that lies at the base of all creation is cut away; the pleasures of life one would normally relish in and enjoy turn bleak and tasteless; daily routines turn monotonous and arduous… life sucks.

However, this is not the end. The bleak and sorrow filled existence so many have been prone to living is not the only outcome. You can choose to unplug. If you have troubles doing so there are many tools available to help. One of which I have recently discovered is located at this great website: http://tesseramethod.com/

Remember, this is not a solution but a tool to help you find the power within.

On Top of Your Game

2010-12-15T21:54:00.001-05:00

This game of life has many hurdles. However, these hurdles are not an outside distraction or irritant, they are, in fact, a part of the game. Life would not be enjoyable if they were not there. A common hurdle that goes unchecked and unnoticed is the succumbing to our primal instincts. They are there for a reason, a useful reason, but more often than not, these instincts rule and dominate our lives. They make countless decisions, guide us down the old roads of our bad habits and sadly keep us from growing on a personal level. Thankfully, life provides an endless supply of opportunities to get to the top of our game. And it is up to us to utilize these opportunities to improve ourselves instead of feeling guilty, blaming ourselves, becoming saturated with remorse, all of which are roadblocks to progress. Though, even those emotions provide an opportunity for success. In other words, any negative situation is a potential blessing, but it is up to us to take advantage of them.

Where Your Morals Lie

2010-12-13T22:59:00.001-05:00

Though it is a delicate and often touchy subject, there has always been a question in my mind that never seems to shake off. Do people really need a book to tell them what their morals are? Are we that savage a race? As wild and crazy as people like to think other animals are, not even wolves are that vicious. Even they hold together a sense of morality, within their packs and without. They same goes for most if not all other creatures on the planet. So, why do people feel that it is only within their holy book, or even in religion in general, that salvation truly lies? Is that not a low bar to set for the human being? Sure there is much violence amidst plenty of chaos in the world. But is that due to a lack of scripture following? It seems mankind is afraid of something. It seems there is a fear to let go and take a step into a new age where people are not governed by threats, punishment and fear. We, like all other species, inherently crave balance in our lives. It is the motivating factor for all actions. We are organism that do not "inhabit" a planet but are of the planet; like the cells and molecules that create what we call our bodies. We have a higher calling than what we have previously set out to do.

Tell me, is there something wrong with acknowledging your connection to the planet?

What Stings the Most

2010-12-09T23:28:00.001-05:00

What matters most is not what knocks us down, but what we let keep us on the ground. Strangely, it is not the initial punch that causes the bulk of the pain. It is all of the thought based, rollercoaster-ride drama that keeps up the residual issues coming. When a problem first arises, it is this time when things are clearest. Action is required and so it is done. However, afterward is when the real trouble starts. Worry, anxiety and fear trickle into the mind as it begins to ponder and mentally manifest all of the potential problems that lie ahead. It is this self defeating mechanism that is often our greatest challenge. Perhaps you made a bad choice. Maybe that person did say something that you felt was "wrong" or unjustified. Just know, however, that it is your constant reflection, deconstruction, and manipulation of past events or potential outcomes that causes you the most pain.

Those who are strongest in this world are not the individuals who can avoid all of the problems, but rather those who can deal with the issues that come their way. We will always have something to deal with. Never will a life be free of problems. The very notion contradicts life itself.

All Powerful

2010-12-06T23:44:00.001-05:00

Grueling as it may seem, life can provide a constant influx of rewards. The question is: are you ready or open to receiving them? As insane as it may sound, the bulk of problems are indeed created by the individual having them. So, does this mean the opposite is the case? It does, indeed. If we can create a life full of problems we can most certainly create a life relatively free of problems. The first step is to change your perception. Seeing that most problems are but hurdles to jump and lessons to be learned will instantly turn seventy percent of your problems into blessings. Those blessings are workouts for you to build your mental dexterity, enabling you to handle situations that once brought you to your knees. Lao Tzu wrote "A man who can control others is strong. A man who can control himself is all powerful!" Though written more than 1500 years ago this truth still applies today.

Poor Leadership or Bad Followers?

2010-12-03T17:18:00.001-05:00

As noted in prior articles, people have a tendency to blame others for their problems or, more specifically pertaining to this case, a tendency to blame the president for the problems of the nation. Indeed, many of this nations leaders make very poor decisions (Obama being an example and Bush certainly so). However, these men are but mere reflections of current state of humanity. Sure, you may not have voted for the person, but if you look at any presidents actions over the past 100 years their modus operandi has been to spread the availability of American interests no matter what they promise. And we the people blindly go along with it, so long as someone is either pro or anti abortion. The reason manipulative issues like abortion are even brought up is due to the passionate response they conjure yet ability to never be resolved. Issues such as this mean little to a president, at least while in office. Their goal is to keep the people from complaining too much and at the same time find ways to bring in cash flow, like any corporation. Capitalism has been the sole drive of the leaders for centuries and this has not changed. And it stays as corrupt as it is because people blindly and foolishly play into mute issues such as abortion rights, gay marriage and so on. And I certainly am not saying that these issues are unimportant, they are in fact very important (I personally believe that I as a non-gay male should not have a choice as to what happens during the birth of someone other than my child or bond between me and my mate, aside from issues of extremity). The point is, instead of blaming someone else for our problems, it is time people paid a little more attention to their own responsibilities. If this nation is to make any real change, there must be a change in the awareness of the population. And, of course, when that happens, we will no longer be a nation but a world; we will no longer be label as a specific race, but rather noted as all part of the human race with an array of differences.

No Measure of Health

2010-11-29T22:39:00.001-05:00

Krishnamurti: "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society."

So what keeps the madness going? Why do the masses strive to "fit in" with the other insane? The answer is simple. People want to fit in. Most want to live a relatively smooth life without bumps along the way, even if this means succumbing to a mirror image of madness. Nazi Germany is, of course, the best example. While there were indeed those that opposed the tyrannical regime of Hitler, many others simply sat by and allowed for the insanity to take place. But that is the most obvious of recent examples. What about current times? What, in our society today, are we standing by and letting happen? Does it not seem that our society is crumbling beneath its feet; in a manner no amount of voting can change? Could it be that the ideals we have been brought up to believe in were largely a ploy to conjure support for another's agenda?

As of yet, societies today are largely constructed on ideologies. And, as fearful as it may sound, all ideologies fail. They fail because they are not real and cannot stand up to the test of reality, as they are too rigid. If I were a betting man, I'd say that the ideological bubble that serves as a foundation for many nations is soon to burst.

Everyone But Me

2010-11-28T13:49:00.001-05:00

In the four corners of the world, there exists a common trait between people. No matter what happens, no matter the circumstance, it seems that the initial human reaction, during some problem or dilemma, is to search for someone or something outside of themselves to blame. The case is, of course, the opposite should something beneficial occur. In such a scenario, people are all too happy to claim credit. So why do people feel the need to blame? Is it just an aspect of laziness? Is it the byproduct of if ignorance? Or is it simply due to a lack of introspection? As is the usual case, the answer is a combination of all three. Some recent cases that pop into my mind are:

Osama Bin Laden and Al Qaeda: Indeed, what they did was horrendous, but blaming "terrorists" for the world's problems is not a solution to anything. It in fact only covers up far more severe issues. And could it be that there are some actions perpetrated by this nation and others that are viewed as "terrorist" acts in the eyes of others?

Barack Obama: Your candidate of choice may have lost or he may be disappointing your decision but he, also, is not to blame for your problems (neither is any president) nor is he the cause of the Armageddon (contrary to what some may think).

Global Warming, 2012, Planet X or any other disaster: Your life may end in relatively quick period of time, but I can guarantee Earth will be here for several BILLION more years.

In the end, we search for others to bear the load of our mental instability, but all this does is prolong the madness. If we truly want to be rid of our "problems" we've got to start looking within, because it is our perception that creates trouble for US.

There will always be something to complain about.

The Complication of Simplicity

2010-11-24T21:09:00.001-05:00

As tough as times may get, life, with all of its troubles and hurdles to jump, is pretty simple. However, the bulk of our problems come from our insatiable craving to complicate things. The irony is complicating your life is very simple. Unlike other creatures that roam the world, we have a mind that craves problems to find solutions too. In fact, it is not uncommon for the mind to create problems where there are none to be found (this is often called boredom). The cause of this behavior is rooted in our thinking. Because we have grown to be so mind dominated, we rely less on our instincts and thus pay less attention to nature, and nature is extremely simple. An example of this would be the wide spread dilemma of ADHD (and like problems), especially with children. Instead of exploring the notion that their child's lifestyle is the problem, many parents stick their children on mind altering drugs in hopes their child will be cured. This of course only adds to the difficulty of a child or person's life.

Life is indeed simple, but it is up to us to keep our minds in check and ensure that we don't complicate it.

Changing Your Tune

2010-11-22T23:21:00.001-05:00

A change in tune can change the world. Tune, in this case, refers to the tune of your energy vibration. How you feel within will most certainly alter your outer reality. If you're walking around praying for change to come your way, but within you feel that all is hopeless, chances are, your situational state will remain the same. This is where your investigative awareness comes in handy, and it is also why awareness is so important. If you are aware of the problem, you now have the power to take action. This awareness also immediately changes the tune you feel within. You may not feel instantly better, but you have severed the identity with your emotion and so given room for change to occur. An important aspect to your energetic tune is: what you put in you get out. So if there is a situation you are trying to change, engaging the situation with a negative (frustrated, angry, sad…) energy will reproduce that same energy as your outcome. Likewise, if you engage with a balanced, confident (not cocky) energy, you are sure to be far more pleased with your results.

Slow Down

2010-11-20T18:19:00.001-05:00

"The world went and got itself in a big damn hurry" – Brooks

And that it did. With the holidays approaching, people have a tendency to speed up from their already impatient ways. Where is everyone going? And why do they have to get there so fast? In reality, there is no destination that such a speedy trip. People just lack the power to slow themselves down. On the road, drivers even grow violent when they must drive at a slower pace. Test it out. You will see how insane people get (if you are not one of them) when you drive slower than they are. This is, of course, only a symptom of a much larger problem, but that problem can have a solution when you pay attention to your behavior. Put some space in your life. Be aware of your unconscious drive to rush through everything. If you do not, you will speed from one moment to the next only to find yourself 80 years old and wondering where your life went.

The Fool Whisperer

2010-11-18T14:02:00.001-05:00

Violence and aggression can act like a bad spread of the flu virus; when a carrier inters the vicinity many others are likely to catch it. However, while puffing your chest out and breathing hard may seem like the best thing to do, such an act only puts you level with the perpetrator of confrontation. Perhaps you are bigger than he or she. Maybe you do know the right Judo chop to knock him out. But, in today's world, as mighty as some of us think we are, size or skill does little in the face of a knife or bullet. And there are plenty of fools in world willing to use these methods to prove that they are bigger than your biceps.

So what, pray tell, is one to do in the light of confrontation? Here are some methods I find very useful to remaining above the perpetrator's level:

Don't look the opponent in the eyes. If you feel fear in the situation, you can feed them power by challenging them in the eyes and "loosing".
Treat the person like they are too ignorant to know what they are doing and avoid talking to them.
Don't react. When you react to their childish thwarts you are again feeding them. Instead respond to the situation with as much clarity as possible.
Understand the individual's angle. Understanding is not justification and it will elevate you beyond their level of ignorance.

All of the above are methods of avoiding conflict and remaining aware if caught by someone else' aggression. Of course, one cannot always plan his moves when caught in a situation, but with these ideas in your mind, chances are you will respond with better clarity.

For physical self defense contact this man: Victor Gojcevic @ paradoxical_vg@yahoo.com

The End of the World

2010-11-15T22:43:00.001-05:00

Yes, the world is ending. All will be lost. All people will die!

Eventually, that is. And the world really isn't ending, it's just constantly changing. So why do such apparently silly notions creep into the consciousness of society? Where does all the fear originate (aside from marketing ads for water and movies)? Could it be that we citizens love the excitement and drama of grand ol' end of the world tale? This sort of event not only gives those feeling bored a sense of purpose and destination, but also keeps an obsessive mind occupied.

The more positive angle about such a scenario is that it foreshadows the end of our current problems as a whole. Many issues would be solved by eliminating the bulk of the erroneous garbage that plagues our beliefs and ideologies with a global catastrophe. However, like the struggling man who wins 12 million dollars, he will create a struggle soon again (only now with more access). Problems are manifested from a deeper psychosis, and our drive to create a fear based end of the world scenario is often only a mechanism for a troubled mind to find a way out. However, like all problems, relief ultimately lies within.

Just Falling Short of Evil

2010-11-13T20:05:00.001-05:00

"Patriotism ruins history" said Goethe, and I must say that I agree. I do not contest the natural inclination to defend and feel proud of one's home. But there is an aspect of patriotism that indeed proves detrimental to public sanity. There is a tendency of many "patriots" to downplay the past events of America's history, specifically early American history. Often people consider the historic genocide to be an act of "wrong doing" but nowhere near as bad as the acts of Hitler or other maniacal acts committed in human history. My question is: how can one deem any of these events better or worse than the other. The slaying of Jews, the elimination of Native Americans, the enslavement of blacks are all acts of bloody insanity, none of which are to be taken lightly. However, people downplay these events because they happened by the hands of their forefathers.

One might ask: What is the problem with this form of denial?

But a better question might be: If someone is willing to overlook this sort of insanity, due to some sick form of tribal defense, what else is he or she in denial about?

Those Commy B@$t@rd$!

2010-11-11T23:28:00.001-05:00

To hold an idea as an individual is one thing. To dehumanize someone because their beliefs are different is another. There are many different countries with different cultures and beliefs in the world. In fact, it is fair to say that every individual holds their own perception and no two perceptions are the same. Knowing this, it would be ignorant to think that one particular set of ideals is "better" than another. This is not to disregard obvious negatives that some ideologies hold. But that's just it. These are ideologies we are talking about. And there is a difference between a person and their ideas. This holds especially true when we speak of national ideologies. To look at an entire culture or country and deem them as hostile or evil is, in fact, an act of evil on its own. Often, phrases like "Oh, they hate us for our beliefs…" or "Those people are crazy…" rolls off of the tongue of the average American with ease. And often the person saying such ignorance knows little to nothing about the accused. Recently, someone stated (mid conversation) "Oh, but they're communist…" as if somehow the Chinese bled red… oh wait, we all do. Words and beliefs like this are dehumanizing, demeaning and detrimental to awareness. We would be wise to discard them.

Just What is Happening

2010-11-09T20:38:00.001-05:00

You know, I've been thinking. America has become a little crowded, am I right? What we as a people need to do is start kicking people out; you know, the ones who don't belong. Things are starting to look a little too different if ya know what I mean. I mean different beliefs, different backgrounds… different view points! What the he!! is going on here? What happened to the nation that was unified; where everybody believed in the same basic principles of life liberty and the pursuit of happiness? How dare others come here (especially illegally) and try to build a life! That's just wrong. Our founding fathers discovered this country from the natives and rightfully constructed what we have today with high moral fiber and a sense of morality (not murder, pillage and genocide). Today, you've got people wanting to put the wrong religious institutions next to the Twin Towers, folks not wantin their kids to pray to God in schools. And worst of all, they want to teach science to our youth. What has the world come to?

Slowing Down

2010-11-08T12:10:00.001-05:00

The ability of cognitive thinking was the revolutionary ability that jolted the human being to the dominant species of planet Earth. It allowed us to build technological works of wonder so marvelous that we can defy the very forces that bind us to Earth. Cognitive thought has also created language, a tool for turning an arbitrary idea into an understandable sound wave or mental construct. However, with just as many benefits comes a plethora of problems. Because we as of yet have failed to, as a majority, overcome our addiction to primal urges, cognitive thought often fuses with those primal urges and becomes insanity. Today, the average person cannot stop thinking. Mention the ability to stop your thoughts from running without pause and people will mention that some evil Devil or spirit will take you over or that a break in thought will turn you stupid. The truth is constant mental chatter is where the evils of the mind manifest. And, it is also how ignorance inundates the mind. Thinking is much like the other functions of the body. There is a flow or balance to which it runs perfectly. If it is overworked, chaos emerges. You need space in your mind. You need a pause in thought. This is the only way to allow for clarity. A few times a day, make the effort to pause and pay attention to your surroundings. Listen, even, to the thoughts rolling through your mind. This, at least, is a cognitive process and provides space within.

You Must Fail

2010-11-04T23:54:00.001-04:00

Failure is perhaps the greatest gift life can offer you. We somehow have a tendency to think that success comes without any skill or experience. This just isn't so. In fact, should you happen to get what you want without any prior experience or knowledge, chances are you'll turn your pleasure into pain instantly. This is like a lottery winner getting that instant ticket and suddenly finds himself blessed with one hundred million dollars. Suddenly, his old problematic habits just found an opening into the extreme. Yes, I know many of you are saying "not me, not me". But honestly, take a look at what you last did when you found yourself bored and judge from there.

The truth is: failing is the gateway to success. We must wobble on the bicycle or even fall before we become experts. We must have our hearts broken before we realize who, what and when to place our faith in a relationship. Failure is a beauty. Little else can show you what you did wrong and how to improve at the same time. Embrace your failures, learn from them.

Life is here for you to play the game, not simply to watch the ending.

In the Stead of Democracy

2010-11-02T22:45:00.001-04:00

"Life, liberty and the pursuit of hypocrisy"

With brutal honesty, the foundations of this country are indeed rooted in the sweat and labor of slaves and "savages". And in accord with America's time old traditions, much of the same behavior still carries on today. Look at your clothing and see where the product was made. It's hard to avoid buying slave labor, but this is a fact we must admit. For those who claim that sweatshops provide relative prosperity in those countries… well, there is little to say to a man with deaf ears. Indeed, it is all a shambles; a game hosted by a perpetuating system run not by the rich, but by us all. Democracy for this nation (and many others) is largely an illusion; upheld by the belief that we choose based upon truthful knowledge. Most politicians are merely skilled marketers. Most government decisions are ruled by big business. And big business requires loads of money, most of which you will never see. In essence, money rules the country. Yes, I know this is an obvious statement. But, I ask the question: How do you contribute to the illusion? The fact is our constant chase for the all mighty dollar keeps the hypocrisy in place and prevents us from attaining our goal. And if you say your goal is to be rich, ask yourself why. What is the benefit of having hordes of dollars?

Why? The answer is simple… and will be continued on the next article……

How to Train Your Spouse

2010-10-31T23:34:00.001-04:00

Let's face it, you can't trust anybody these days. People are inherently prone to bad behavior. So, if you're in a relationship the only way to maintain a sense of balance, peace and love is to harp down on that individual like a dog you found roaming through your trash. First, wild dogs are bound to run away and sniff for a new home, so lock that puppy up and make sure he or she never sees the light of day. If and when the individual must venture beyond your doorstep, insure that the person is tied to your mental leash and unable to look in the direction of the opposite sex. If you don't do this, they just might find another person attractive. And let's be honest, all attraction to other people should end upon agreement of seeing each other. Second, when together, make sure the friends your spouse manages to keep understand that you are in control and can remove their playtime at your will. For, if they don't know this, chances are they will attempt inflame old habits like laughter and passionate interest in hobbies (the only passion this person should have should be for you). And lastly on today's list, make sure your spouse knows that you are the center of their universe and all other cares are secondary. This goes especially if you are married. After all, the relationship may take two to tango but you truly are the king or queen.

(If there is any confusion about the above simply refer to the training manual that came with your spouse when you purchased)

What Are You Afraid Of?

2010-10-27T21:17:00.001-04:00

Defense is natural. All people, all beings in fact, defend themselves when under threat. There is nothing wrong with this. However, when there is no actual threat, when instead only an idea is threatened, there is a tendency for people to grow defensive if not violent. A great example of this is the defense of religion. Most have been witness to this or even partaken in the event. Perhaps a comment was made by a non-believer. Or, perhaps an individual who clearly does not prescribe to the same ideology enters the room (digital or real). It doesn't take much for people with "strong beliefs" to begin the often insane crusade to either prove the other wrong or show that their "truth" is unshakable.

Why?

If a belief is strong, it needs no defense. Ideas are untouchable. They are only under threat when the believer feels vulnerable. This is akin to a "macho" man feeling the need to parade his bravado in a juvenile effort to appear "tough". Clearly, such an individual is weak. Otherwise he, or even she, would feel no need to prove. The individual's identity is clearly built on a house of cards and so is ready to tumble.

If you feel strongly about something, put it to the test. Take the criticism. Allow others to hold their beliefs without the need to convert them. The truth is strong enough on its own.

Who’s Responsible?

2010-10-24T16:16:00.001-04:00

"Why are you doing this to me?"

"You are upsetting me!"

"Do you know how badly that pisses me off?!"

What does all of this translate into? "You are responsible for the way I feel." "It is up to you to make me feel comfortable." "Why can't you act the way I want you to/ do what I want you to so that my life runs as expected?"

Here is the potentially painful truth: YOU are responsible for the way you feel. Sure, your boyfriend may be an a$$hole. Indeed, your friends may be as flaky as a Kellogg's brand of cereal. But, in the end… well, and in the beginning… you are responsible for you. It is you that must deal with your emotions and your behavior. Therefore, blaming someone else is not only a hindrance to your wellbeing, but also the complete opposite of your goal (to keep things running smoothly).

If you no longer wish to deal with the ignorance of others, stop talking to them. If you cannot stop talking to them or you wish to mend whatever wound or face whatever issue, speak to the person(s), but do so in a manner that is not blaming them for the way you feel. If your goal is to unleash the pent up emotion within you upon this individual, you will only be met with an equal force of opposition. Remember that the actions of others are a form of language, often much better communicated than with words. So, the next time a friend, lover, family member avoids you like the plague, be glad. They're doing you a favor. Chances are they would have tried to make you as miserable as they are or vice versa. Either way, it's a great opportunity for self reflection and a chance to deal with whatever abandonment issue are boiling beneath your bubble.

The one constant in life is change!

Just The Symptoms

2010-10-21T23:52:00.001-04:00

Behavior is a strange thing. For all advancing and growing up we think we do, it is amazing to see just how much of our behavior is repetitive. And the repetition would not be an issue if so much of it wasn't problematic. So do we change? How does the average man or woman make a difference in his or her life? Are they slaves to this behavior, or can they make a change?

We can indeed change! However, the source of our problems is not within the behavior but much closer to home. It is our mindset, or as I like to say our energy tune. Much of this "tune" is set by how powerful we feel in regards to our personal lives. When we truly feel that we can make a change within that is when we access to our inner most source of power. This is because we always the power within, we must simply unleash it. How to do this? Dive in! Ask yourself questions if necessary. Read material on self-help. Investigate you!

That is a start.

Follow the Leader

2010-10-19T21:18:00.001-04:00

The race of humans is truly a splendor of Earth's creation. We are advanced in so many ways, ways in which most humans are rarely aware of. Though, on the other hand, there are many ways in which we fall short as a species. Today I was privy to such an example. Unfortunately, built within we have a need to follow the most motivated individuals. This is not inherently a problem, simply a blueprint for our social hierarchy to keep things in order. Problems, however, are created because no longer are we driven purely by instincts. Instead, our heads are filled with so much extraneous matter that we find it hard to form balance in our actions (simply observe people as they are). While I was walking today, I came upon a crosswalk. In an effort to be a good Samaritan (I'm not actually from Samaria), I pressed the crosswalk button and crossed when indicated. However, a good ten or twelve people in cars felt as if I was in the wrong and proceeded to honk at me. One older gentlemen felt it necessary to indicate with his vehicle that he would hit me if I did not hurry. Another classy gal decided to flip me the bird for pointing out that the little man in white was well lit and still shining. Now, I don't imagine that these people are inherently evil, but I am assuming that none of them questioned why they felt it the right thing to do by honking at me and proceeding to pull forward in an aggressive manner towards a man on foot. Albeit, this was a very busy section, and people are rarely used to dealing with pedestrians. But, I ask, does this warrant violent behavior (road rage). How many excuses can we make for ourselves before it becomes apparent that we must make our own choices and not just follow behind the person in front?

The Fear of Loneliness

2010-10-16T22:35:00.001-04:00

Many of today's cultures seem to detest the idea of being along. When we hear of a story of somebody being placed in a situation where they must be isolated and find enjoyment there is a tendency to go "awe, poor guy." But what is the problem with being alone? Where is there an issue of sadness? The insane perpetuation of boredom killing is a cancerous plague that has spread throughout the minds of the masses. What seems to be the case is simply: we are afraid to face our thoughts. When we are alone (and not inundated by entertainment) we have to listen to the insanity that roles throughout our minds. And by insanity I do not only mean the craziness of a sociopath. Indeed, the bulk of madness lies with the ordinary man and woman. Pay attention to yourself; see if, even for a brief moment, when you have nothing to do, nothing to entertain your mind with, you start fidgeting. See if, in the moment of nothingness, you start looking for something to occupy your time and focus. These symptoms are akin to a hamster on a wheel, the running cannot stop and you are (apparently) powerless to control it.

However, I challenge you. See if you can go into the feeling. See if you can sit and do nothing. Pay attention to your surroundings. Observe the world around you. If you feel the urge to "do", simply observe that within yourself and allow the feeling to be without acting upon it. The results may change your life.

Your Oyster

2010-10-14T23:31:00.001-04:00

The tribulations of daily living bear down on like an anchor tied to a marathon swimmer. Many people, if not most, feel as if life just will not give them a little slack. After fighting and struggling for so long all anybody wants is a little bit of the reward they've been chasing for so long. Yet, often the case is that another problem comes along and adds troubles to the already stuffed basket. How, then, can one break the cyclical nature of brewing fires and putting them out? How can the average man or women get "ahead of the game" long enough to enjoy just a sliver of life? As always, I advocate that you see the truth: To a large extent you are creating your world. You are starting the fires you so desperately need to put out. It is embedded within us to think and feel that the world around us is to blame for our issues, yet we fail to see and take responsibility for the one thing we only ever have true control and direct influence over: ourselves. It is within that the work must first be done. Within you must create balance. From here, the rest of the world and play into affect. And when unavoidable turbulence comes about, your reaction will be of stable nature and thus ripple that energetic vibration into everything and everyone.

From here, the world is your oyster.

Like A Party

2010-10-11T19:32:00.001-04:00

A famous comedian once said that relationships are like a party. When you're outside of the party looking in, you feel left out, sad and lonely. You want to be there, but you weren't invited. When you're at the party, you're tired, ready to go. Perhaps even ready to go to other parties. Much of human life runs in this manner. We set out to achieve and accomplish. Have harbor lust and longing for what is not in our possession. However, when we hold the grand prize; once we've conquered that mountain or hill, there is a sense of lack. And, sometimes instantly, we start off on a new trek, in search of fulfillment. The mechanism for this behavior I've written about in prior blogs. But never is this lesson too redundant. We need to understand the way our minds work. Often we are driven to attain and then find that we are empty after receiving. This is because our goal was not to have but to chase. The chase is what we want, though we may say otherwise. And while there is nothing wrong with a healthy game of cat and mouse, this mustn't usurp our time on this Earth. The outcome of this sort of lifestyle is one let down after another and thus a jarred view on life. When feeling those urges to accomplish or tackle, the crucial element to staying in control is (once more) awareness. Become aware of what you are chasing and why you are chasing it.

Putting Them on a Pedestal

2010-10-09T18:41:00.001-04:00

Forgiving people for their mistakes is not only a high-minded and noble deed, but also a healthy practice. However, when it comes to the "heroes" of a country, nations and cultures love to exonerate and then glorify individuals whose actions were none short of madness. In America, our culture exceeds at this. Figures such as Christopher Columbus or Woodrow Wilson are seen as heroic figures or staples for society; a sort of strong foundation for the moral fiber of this nation. If this is the case, it's no wonder this nation has the problems it does. Columbus was a genocidal lunatic who viewed the native "savages" as less than human, and saw no problem in killing them like cattle. Woodrow Wilson, a "strong" and iconic American President was a proud supporter of the KKK and obvious racist. Even Abraham Lincoln, "the man who freed the slaves" cared little about the human rights of blacks.

"My paramount object in this struggle is to save the Union, and is not either to save or to destroy slavery. If I could save the Union without freeing any slave I would do it, and if I could save it by freeing all the slaves I would do it; and if I could save it by freeing some and leaving others alone I would also do that. What I do about slavery, and the colored race, I do because I believe it helps to save the Union; and what I forbear, I forbear because I do not believe it would help to save the Union. I shall do less whenever I shall believe what I am doing hurts the cause, and I shall do more whenever I shall believe doing more will help the cause."

-Abraham Lincoln (Honest Abe)

Some feel that we should ignore this fact because that was "just how they were during those times" and they truly meant well. But this poor and ignorant stance on the subject begs the question: What about men like Adolf Hitler or Osama Bin Laden? Should we pardon them for their ignorance too? Or is the case simply Hitler was German and seen as our "enemy" and not a "founding father" or "exalted hero".

Seeing as we are an "advanced" culture and people, isn't it about time we see this sort of childish behavior for what it is?

Bodily Awareness

2010-10-06T14:31:00.001-04:00

A very recent encounter with a hard piece of metal and a color full of rocks reminded me of just how important it is to be aware of our bodies. Too easily these incredible machines are taken for granted. Within my own mind I sometimes forget about the necessities that are required. Sometimes there is an unconscious notion that I can simply exist without the need to pay attention within and inside (mind the pun). But, alas, I am free and well (with minor bruise and some staples). However, the greatest impact was the lesson learned. There is only so long one can neglect the care and attention of his body before it sends him a very unpleasant reminder.

Take Care Of Yourselves!

Lamenting Regrets

2010-10-04T22:05:00.001-04:00

The title of this blog is indeed repetitive. Ironically, this is often the case with our regrets. We experience so much in our lives, so many ups and downs. It is impossible not to experience the cascade of fluctuating emotions. However, I have found that the bulk of pain lies not within the trauma of the actual experience, but in the reminiscing of past events. And, unless you've spent your entire life in solitary confinement, chances are you've enacted some undesirable behavior, at one point in time. However, the true display of madness shines forth when we lament over past actions. As the thoughts pop up we are tortured; shaken back to a position of fear, all the while there is nothing of threat standing before us. And if that weren't insane enough, these torturous thoughts lend themselves all too easily to further irrational madness, only driving the individual deeper into a state of regret. Now, if that weren't a sign of a sick and dangerously insane species, I don't know what is.

The World By The B@!!$

2010-10-01T15:48:00.001-04:00

The search for security is a quest all beings undertake. All species have certain requirements needed to survive. Humans, however, have discovered how to take the requirements for daily living thousands of steps beyond. We no longer need to hunt. We simply must drive (not even walk) to the grocery store to pick up our pre-packaged meat and bread to feed ourselves and families. If you happen to be wealthy, chances are even these meager steps are done for you. One might say (and forgive me if this expression bothers you) "We have the world by the balls!" People often wonder (in all classes) "what does that person have to worry about, he has everything a human could ever want, and was handed to him."

The problem is inherent, however. Because we are designed to go out and hunt for survival, one of the worst things for us is to have everything handed to us on a plate. We need to do. We need to be out utilizing our skills and improving our mastery of whatever talents are latent within us. So to have everything given to you is more likely to be a curse rather than a blessing. Yes, winning million of dollars can be wondrous. But if your goal is only to attain this or that, your life will soon grow stale. Stagnation will infiltrate your mind and problems will soon manifest, only with all the new avenues money can afford.

Time Killers

2010-09-28T22:02:00.001-04:00

Entertainment is a wonderful thing. Those who know me personally are aware of my fascination with massive televisions, movies, games and rollercoasters. But there needs to be a healthy equilibrium. Too easily can pastimes such as shopping or internet surfing take up the majority of an individual's attention. It is easier to notice the time killer addiction when it drains you of vital funds or creates sleep deprivation. But what about the more common symptoms, such as needing the television on while eating? Westerners especially are accustomed to using the television and internet to cure the "boredom" syndrome. But, what are the effects of this. Can sleeping in front of the television create issues in your life? Does compulsive internet surfing wear down on mental stability?

Indeed it does. Mental clarity is perhaps the most important aspect to a healthy day to day living but is sadly taken for granted. Worse, we are so juked up on entertainments that it is considered normal to walk around like a zombie in constant need of mental subduing. If you disagree with this, ask yourself what boredom really is and, more importantly, why you need to kill it so badly.

Allow, Don’t Squeeze

2010-09-26T20:05:00.001-04:00

There are many concepts of freedom and the word's connotations. In this particular blog I am speaking in terms of freedom in regards to intimate relationships. This often chaotic situational circumstance results in higher stress, a bad attitude and an overall shift in perception (typically for the worse).

"Why?" one may ask.

As odd as it may seem, we try to trap people into the grasp of our mental pigeon-holds. We hold expectations, demands and, as I like to say, "should's and shouldn't's" with extreme judgment. This seems to be an attempt to hold another person within the confines of a "relationship", as if it is that concept (the concept of a relationship) that will keep a person with you. There are several issues with this. The first (and maybe it's just me), if you need this idea to keep your mate around (and faithful) isn't the structure of the relationship bound to fail? The same goes obviously with marriage. If the vows are the foundation of the relationship, if the "I do" is the standing root of a "blissful" union, separation is inevitable. Few people enjoy feeling confined and obligated and even fewer enjoy feeling policed and patrolled. It would seem, then, that the key ingredient to a successful relationship is allowance and freedom, even if this means allowing the individual to "leave" you. Of course, as with most things, this process is more mental than a part of reality.

A Tale of Two Worlds

2010-09-22T14:44:00.001-04:00

Sleep apnea is a serious problem for many people, however, many suffer from a more common dilemma: they can't stop thinking. There are many who feel if they ceased to think (by thought I mean verbal mental chatter) they would cease to exist. Some even feel that demons or spirits are liable to sneak their way in and poses you if this were to happen. The truth is, people live in two different worlds. In one world, the world of ceaseless mental chatter, the world is scary. Things are constantly attacking you and you are constantly under threat. In the other world, the natural world of what we may call "reality" life flows with a balance of disruption and correction. Strangely, however, this world is usually calmer. Its moment to moment activity is far less chaotic and often supplies solutions to the problems that arise.

A great example of the comparison I am making would be a man who has a hard time sleeping at night. He is worried about the events of tomorrow and feels as if he is under threat. Perhaps the bills are due. Maybe he will be fired or let go from his job. Either way, he is safe and fine in his bed yet he feels vulnerable to an imminent attack and so suffers yet another grueling night laden with anxiety.

In this life we all will experience both worlds. But it seems that the older we get the more the mental chatter in our mind becomes problematic. But, is this inevitable or do we have a choice in the matter?

Refusing a Future

2010-09-20T23:20:00.001-04:00

Along the long and brutal history of the human species, all "races" have suffered to some degree. In America, however, there are a few select whose cultures have been decimated and all but whipped from the face of the planet. The Native American tribes of North America, in particular, continue to battle the effects of such suffering. One of the ways in which the American government has attempted to counteract the atrocities committed is by providing free education the decedents with Native blood. Unfortunately, I must report that many students have been denied the Michigan Indian Tuition Waiver and so denied a chance to create a better future for themselves and their families. Yes, there many other people of different backgrounds who do not receive this funding, but the Native peoples, if any, deserve this waiver. Personally, I think several other cultural groups deserve this too. In fact, I believe that higher education is best a free (or cheaper) option, but for right now, why not help to empower those cultures that need it the most. The best way to counteract poverty and crime, after all, is to educate.

If you or someone you know have been denied for the Michigan Indian Tuition Waiver and have a letter stating that they were denied, we are asking that you please contact Faye Givens @ American Indian Services 313.388.4100.6