Ever wonder why your friend continues to find boyfriends who abuse
her? Are you curious about the reason why John can't seem to find a
girlfriend? Perhaps even you yourself are having a bit of trouble in
the department of love. Maybe you find that all women are "screwed up
in the head" with "too much emotional baggage" or, perhaps, you view
all men to be "a$$#oles" who are "only after one thing". Have you
heard these words coming from either you or your friends? Have you
ever stopped to wonder why men and women complain about each other in
nearly the same fashion, yet for some odd reason continue to act out
the same patterns in their relationships?

As with the stimulation of chasing could it be that you or your
friends are addicted to the pleasure of pain?