Ever wonder why you love your dog or cat so much? Ever wonder why they seem to lift your spirits even if they are as wild as a Tasmanian Devil? If I had to guess, I would say that it is because they give us unconditional love and acceptance. It's what we all want. The feeling fuels people's lives; it can even save a soul from suicide. You've got to wonder then, why it is ingrained into the human psyche to judge relentlessly. Aside from it being easier than making the choice to rise beyond that often uncontrollable urge (to judge), there is an addictive quality. Judging others is a form of dominance (mentally), especially if done in large groups of the same opinion. The simple truth is, when we judge we feel powerful over the victim. This feeble act of mental control can feel like a shot of heroine, with each act fueling the need for more.

Perhaps, the next time you feel the desire to judge (not all cases are the addictive sort) ask yourself why you are criticizing the individual(s). Is it relevant? Is it helpful? Are you feeling better than the other person while doing it?