Remember the song I Want You to Want Me by Cheap Trick? Yes, it was a bit poppy, full of all the happy-go-lucky bubblegum music we all loved as a teenager. But the song spoke a certain truth, a truth few people are aware of. As social beings we desire the attention and admiration of fellow humans. But that process has become detrimental to our wellbeing. It can lead to worry, fear and even depression.

Many people's actions are often dictated by the voice of popularity. Even inaction can be attributed to the fear of what another might think. If you stand back and take a look at your life, a deep, very honest look, ask yourself how many of your actions are directed by the need to have others view you in a positive light. When you take a look at it, you might very well find that much of your life is dictated by this.

Perhaps the question is: Do you want others dictating the actions of your life?