The old adage "Those who fail to learn from their mistakes are doomed to repeat them" may be engrained into the memories of most modern day citizens, but few people actually take this slogan to heart (or mind). Though, it can be hard to change old habits. Sometimes I even find myself repeating the same technique at the same angle wondering if the next attempt will make a difference. However, there is, as of now, little room left for this sort of error. For how long can we hold on to this ignorance as a whole? Individually, repeating the same old mistakes can lead to relatively insignificant consequences, but collectively the impact is much greater.

Change is a great thing, it is, in fact, a requisite for survival. One of the features that led to the amazing evolution of the human species is our ability to adapt and see the world from a greater perspective. So, what's happening now? It seems that we've hit a block in the road and got cozy. Perhaps pressure need to build up for people to see that it's time to get moving again, (such as a severe crisis or disaster) but the fate of man in uncertain. Being part of the gene-pool, I for one hope enough people can alter their awareness to create the change needed to survive.

Very recently, there has been much talk about the insertion of the new horoscope sign Ophiuchus. And, while this new sign broadens the scope of daily and monthly predictions of fortune and trouble, it also signifies something of importance. You see, Ophiuchus didn't just waft onto the Ecliptic line of Zodiac signs, it has been there for a very long time. However, because of what we are used to the sign has been largely neglected by horoscope readers.

(So, you mean to tell me that I am not an Aries? Damn it! Now I won't win the lottery)

But, were these predictions something to live by in the first place? Can a piece of paper tell you who you are and what you should do. To some, the notion of zodiac predictions was a farce from the start, but for many others it was a sign for hope or guidance. Sadly, like those who claim the future is written on a deck of cards, it is indeed an illusion. And while I personally know that there is much more to existence than what we can detect or know, it is too easy to rely on someone else to predict your future. This is another form of security that keeps you stuck and prevents you from exploring the unknown. No one can tell you your future, and if they could your future will have changed in that instant. Life is what you make it. Don't wait for next weeks predictions to give you further instructions.

 Of the plethora of words in the English dictionary, there is one in particular that conjures up many notions. In Latin there were more than twenty terms and definitions for love, and rightfully so. So, what is love? Is it that painful feeling one has when longing for a mate? Is the inability to let someone go beyond your sight? Perhaps love is the emotion you feel when have that special someone in your arms. And perhaps it is that unbearable emotion you feel when you think about them with another person.

If so, this notion of love is not that far off from what a stalker feels; constantly waiting around the corner to see the person of his or her affections, thinking about them constantly, unable to get them out of his or her mind. What is the difference... the intensity? Perhaps our notions of love are a bit off from what we originally intended them to be. Perhaps we are so used to turning everything we want into a possession of ownership and so lose sight of its true value. Perhaps this is the reason for such a high divorce rate.

In any case, it is interesting to think about and review the ideas and concepts we hold dear like love and marriage, only in marriage people feel they have the right to own another person (now that sounds like slavery).

 

 

A physicist once said to me "I've seen particles bounce in and out of our dimension. But I don't know how we are all one." The look on his face was that of a man who felt alone and isolated. He seemed distant and lost. At that moment I wondered how a man so intelligent could feel so disconnected from the world. We are as separate from each other as our cells are separate from the rest of our body. And if you only pay attention to the outer shell and concept of who you are, you will not feel your connection with the rest of the world.

Disconnecting ourselves within our mind can lead to a feeling of disparity, loneliness and ultimately depression. Sometimes humans feel that knowing how the world works will solve the problems of humanity. They may even feel that what they see takes them a level higher than their fellow humans, but it does not. We are all connected in ways our mind cannot fully understand. Seeing and knowing is wonderful, even helpful, but to complete the experience we must go deeper, we must feel within and become aware of the world without the need to label it.

Our existence is a funny occurrence. There are six point whatever billion beings roaming the planet, mostly looking just to get by. And throughout this seemingly meaningless existence it becomes very easy to forget our connection to this world. We tend to lose our connection, or rather the feeling of connectedness. But I have noticed something; the more aware one is of the synchronicity the more he or she begins to open up a world mystic coincidence. It is as if you are digging your roots deeper into the ground and so are able to utilize more of the life source that fuels the world. To some this will sounds odd, but to others it makes perfect sense, and is also a potentially splendid reminder. Take time out of your day to relax and meditate. Ease your mind and feel within. Not only will this relax you but it will reconnect you to the source from which you came. The deeper you dive, the more synchronicity will manifest.

Human beings are a special bunch. Imposable thumbs, cognitive thinking, the use of toilets, these are but a fraction of our unique traits. But what really stands out, what really makes us different, are our actions. Humans have the most unique behavior of all creatures that roam the Earth. And as a salute to my fellow kin I would like to name some of the greatest actions/behaviors we humans are prone to doing.

1. Yelling, cursing, or fuming at an inanimate object – This one is brilliant. It really displays our abilities to distinguish and discern.
   
2. Punching, kicking or throwing inanimate objects – This one's even better as there is no way to tell your service provider that they are failing at their jobs like breaking your $400 cellphone.
   
3. Screaming "Calm down!" to someone who is irate – People really don't "get it", do they? This way you lead by example.
   
4. Creating peace by declaring war – The world is full anger, hate and violence and there's only one way to eliminate it: kill the enemy, his allies and his sympathizers. Doing this will certainly bring heaven on Earth.
   
5. Telling someone their belief is wrong and yours is right – Let's face the facts, God wants everyone to get into heaven, that's why he put one book in the hands of a select few in a very small section of the world.
   

To be continued…

The shooting of Gabrielle Giffords and several others was awful, as are most shootings. It was senseless, to say the least. Upon hearing of the incident I decided to investigate and see more of what happened. Normally I steer clear of commentary posted on sites like youtube, but this time I wanted to read more. After seeing comments like "I bet you democrats wish there were some gun totin Tea Partiers around" reminded me of exactly why I don't read them. Keeping in that the people writing these comments could range from nine year olds to lunatics released from the penitentiary eases some of the frustration. But there were plenty of comments of this nature, and not just on youtube. Perhaps the question "What is wrong with some people" is useless… but wow. To wage in political propaganda in an incident like this is not only childish but inhumane. And it isn't just happening on Youtube. It's everywhere. The woman was shot. Republican, Democrat, Libertarian, Space Martian Supporter, her blood was red. She was just as human as any other.

Is this truly best that people have to offer? "If she's not on my side she deserved what she got?" What about the other's that were wounded and killed? Just now with the typing of her name resulted in the voting poll of: "Did she deserve it?" I know people "really" are that stupid, but I cannot help think that this sort of mentality is most certainly the demise of our species.

Winter is, perhaps, the most fascinating of seasons. It has been called the season of death. Its weather is the most dangerous, crops have a tough time growing… life seems to want to halt in general. But, as a human being, we have the privilege of making the choice to step out from our Inns and witnessing the wonder of winter. In fact, as dwellers of this often frigid land I recommend one does this every day. Burrowing one's self within the confines of manmade walls can and will drive a person to severe physical and emotional unbalance. As stated before, we need to expel energy, this is a must. But because of the cold and our lifestyles it is very easy for us to lock ourselves in with the heaters on full blast and the televisions turned on. However, what we do not see immediately are the slow mechanics of depression, anxiety, agitation (among many other mental problems) starting to turn. Not to mention the lack of vitamin D from the sun. This message might seem like a pretty obvious reminder, but trust me; it is very easy to burrow yourself in, only to find that you now posses a slew of emotional issues (all within a week).

Personally, I love to listen to people explain their problems. I find it challenging to find a way to communicate with someone who is having a hard time. Different people require different methods of communication. Though there is one thing I have noticed. When dealing with someone who is completely addicted to their problems, they will repeat themselves in such a way that completely avoids hearing what you have to say, even if they are still asking for help or advice. This is a particularly challenging scenario. A person who repeats themselves in order to find clarification is one thing, someone who repeats themselves unconsciously, totally usurped by the thoughts running through their mind is a totally different scenario. What is interesting is that this is a common trait among the average citizen in our society. People walk around blabbing to themselves repeating the same messages in their head verifying their own beliefs. This behavior is a form of validation. It is also insane. Subsequently, it gives people a sense of separation from world around them.

Imagine a world full of people like this. It would seem chaotic, wouldn't it?

There are many unquenchable desires that exist in intimate relationships. Aside from the obvious, the most common desire is that of the need for excitement. Nearly all people exhibit this behavior, but rarely are people aware of it. Things usually start off "perfect". You meet each other, there seems to be a pull towards the person so strong you cannot help but feel it is beyond you. The courtship goes spot on. He's Mr. Cool and calm, somehow finding a way to impress all of her friends. She's a catch with her balanced display of sex appeal and respectability. And then it happens, that magical moment of intimacy. All seems perfect. Love blossoms.

But, 6 to 12 months down the line things aren't so new. The initial appeal is over. Things seem monotonous and somewhat bland. However, there is a new way to keep the juices flowing. The first fight breaks out. You get over it, but it seems to give way to other arguments. Now, the blood pumps over little things. There is an addictive need to complain to your friends about the other person's behavior. Things heat up even more and on and on until the negativity is too much for the body and mind to take.

Is this the cause of a bad spouse or is this the result of an inner monster that has been dormant for so long and now has its outlet?